my husband is iligaly living in the country ireland ive already paid half the fees for his solicitor i know what he did is disgusting because he did sleep with me after having sex with the prostitute i only found out cause she rang him and he was about to pay her,because he is still iligal here does this make a difference for applying for a divorce?it was a woman that married us in a registry office-i dont want to be the one who is responsible if he got thrown out of ireland,it was a secret marraige i didnt tel my family because dont like him and we were going to save money for a good chruch wedding, im regreting geting married to this man
2007-11-28 16:32:49 · 13 answers · asked by daisyanna 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
illegal is illegal. he hurt you and by the sound of it he didn't regret it.get the divorce, if he gets deported, its his own fault for not doing the right thing.
2007-11-28 16:37:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry bc u r definitly not alone. My entire family is Muslim but barely taught me anything about Islam. Then last year when I turned 15 I felt like there was somethig missing in it life. I turned to religion and studied many but found Islam to be the clearest and the definite truth. I was amazed how simple Islam was, but still struggled learning how to pray correctly and all that(I have an advantage over u bc I kinda knew how to pray already, but not entirley correct). Basically, try ur hardest evryday to learn a much as u can bc Allah knows ur trying ur best. If u can, go to a masjid and ask someone there for help to teach u things; if u can't go to a masjid for whatever reason, ask someone here for help or find good websites that will help u for free. Please dont think ur a lost cause bc u were guided to the truth, u just need some help that's all. I'm sure any good user here would be glad to help u. If ur too scared to ask someone u can always ask me if u like, although I'm sure others here r way smarter than me on these things, but I'll try my best to help. I wish u the best. May Allah guide u and us all ameen.
2016-05-26 07:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, he's no good. He could have given you an STD, even AIDs. He should be deported and you shouldn't care after what he did to you. He probably only married you to get legal residence papers. End the marriage and go on with your life. You should not feel guilty in the least. Swallow your pride and admit that you made a mistake.
2007-11-28 16:38:28 · answer #3 · answered by notyou311 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Daisy! Girl you need to deal with this now. Keeping secrets like this only make things worse. Make a clean break, tell the truth, talk to your family and get some legal advise from professional. This can really do you harm later on in life. We all make mistakes, even your parents, and as difficult as it is telling your family it won't be as awful as the mess you find yourself in now. Thank God you realized this now and not five years from now.
By the way, have you gotten tested? Don't delay! Ask for help.
Good luck and get on with it!
2007-11-28 16:42:17 · answer #4 · answered by patrick m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel that he is going cheat on you again it will be a lot less painful to just divorce him. By the way you are NOT accountable for him being iligal. especially if you are paying for his fees. I suggest that you meet a man that can treat you better with the respect that you deserve.
2007-11-28 16:38:29 · answer #5 · answered by Juls1207 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
girl does it matter whether he gets kicked out he fu**ed a prostitute and then you! if i where you divorce him and oh well if he gets deported he should have never done that to you, you are both married and he disgraced the sanctity of you marriage. if i were you i would also get tested any std's b/c you don't know if he used protection
2007-11-28 16:46:59 · answer #6 · answered by Cinthya R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File for divorce in the city you were married in.
2007-11-28 16:35:29 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i were u i would contact my parents. seems like u re young and stupid and have been screwed by this illegal alien for visa. your parents might call u stupid and maybe yell at u ( i know i would) but what it is in comarison with aids which he will give u if now then later? adults will know how to act
2007-11-28 16:58:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it does not matter. You just need to file for your divorce. Illegal immigrant is his problem and has noting to do with your divorce but he would be deport for his illegal status.
2007-11-28 16:40:24 · answer #9 · answered by Thunder1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your family was right about him and if he is illegeal then he should be thrown out regardless.
2007-11-28 16:36:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋