BIG PROBLEM: Boobs and Swimsuits. HELP!!!?

Question

Ok, so here's the thing: we have a swimming pool in my backyard, and this coming summer I am probably going to host and end-of-the-year-swim-party. Here's the problem: I have no boobs. Almost all of the other girls at my school have boobs, if not HUGE boobs, so what am I supposed to do? I don't want to walk outside in one of my bikinis with no chest to fill it.

Answer 1

As so many others have said, next summer is a long way off. Don't worry about it. Even if you don't grow the 'boobs of your dreams' - there are other things you can do to be comfortable with your physique. Don't be concerned with what you don't have - be glad with what you do have. Emphasize your positives & have a great time!

I've dated people who were very well endowed (but lacked personality) to very flat chested women who had wonderful personalities. Trust me - the personality will win! (And any guy who takes boobs over personality isn't worth your time!)

In closing, if at the end of next summer, you're still concerned about your development and don't wish to wear a bikini - try a one piece suit. There are lots of them that can both enhance what you have as well as focus attention elsewhere. A one piece with scalloped sides & a t-back works well for what you are looking to do. Check at a place that caters to competitive swimming & you'll likely find something that'll work well for you.

Answer 2

a) Next summer is a long way off. I'd bet your boobs get bigger before then.

b) Believe me, from a guy's perspective - any boobs is enough boobs. Big ones, little ones, HUGE ones, they are all spectacular.

c) At least know that you can dive and swim and have fun with the guys - something that guys really like. Chesty girls will be too afraid of their suits falling down to relax and have fun. Be a "guy's girl" and you will get all the male attention you want.

Answer 3

i feel your pain, trust me i totally understand i'm the same way. i am always so self consice about it but durnign the summer i normally get a bikini with padding in it. i'm still always worried about it but padding is the only thing that i can think of or use. this will make you feel better, i'm a water polo player. that means one pieces and that means no padding!! and that means me looking even more flat chested and for some reason half the girls on the team have some huge boobs. its really i dont know why though. kinda ironic

Answer 4

Try finding a one-piece with a V-neck. Makes boobs look smaller. And I think a bikini will be just fne. And in the meantime do some toning exercises.

Answer 5

Dont worry about it as long as you have a cute face thats all that counts or a great personality it doesnt matter what you look like to other and boobs dont matter just be comfortable

Answer 6

Well, first thing you need to do is come to terms with your body... you'll develop, darling. And, even if you remain not-so-well endowed, many people find that attractive as well! In the meantime, though, if you must, buy yourself a "waterbra" swimsuit. I believe Victoria's Secret sells them. Or padded swimsuits. Hang in there!

Answer 7

padded bathers work really well
and there are heaps of certain bathers which are meant to increase the look of the size of your boobs.
for example bathers which have patterns and prints and ties behind the neck will enhance small boobs.

but just be confident
no body will pay that much attention unless you make it obvious that you are uncomfortable about them.
have fun :)

Answer 8

Victorias Secret will hook you up to the latest bra enhancement devices.

Answer 9

If your friends don't like you because you do or don't have breasts, it is time for new friends who aren't so shallow.

Answer 10

I have no answer, I just like reading your question repeatedly.