My husband has been sending another woman with sexy emails and SMS. I said, it's cheating but he said, it's just for fun. What do yo guys think?
2007-11-28 15:48:01 · 13 answers · asked by jaegerr000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
... I would call it temptation. What is happening is he really doesn't realize that he is being tempted. Ideas start in the simplest form and grows.
... That doesn't say that he will ever cheat or anything will become of it. But you do have a right to be concerned. He should be flirting with you.
2007-11-28 16:10:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, when your mind is lusting you may as well be doing the actions. His mind is lusting after her....
25 Do not lust in your heart after her beauty
or let her captivate you with her eyes,
26 for the prostitute reduces you to a loaf of bread,
and the adulteress preys upon your very life.
Proverbs 6:25-26
I would suggest the two of you opening up God's word to see what he has to say about this. Two chapter in Proverbs speak specifically about this, and is to the point and makes great sense. You can also go to biblegateway.com if you do not own a bible. Proverbs 5:23 and Proverbs 6:20-35
I wish the two of you the best, and I hope the two of you can heal the gap between you that have lead to this. There is also a wonderful book that my husband and I read after his affair during our engagment 5 years ago that was forever changing. http://www.amazon.com/Avoiding-Greener-Grass-Syndrome-Marriage/dp/082542013X
2007-11-28 16:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by Brynn W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she's local than you might have a problem. Hook ups happen so fast via the Internet and once you connect with someone you like and they are from town, then it is easy to meet up with them. And when they do hookup, its not about having an innocent luncheon; it's about meeting to have sex. If she's in like Canada or Australia, then it's probably no big deal.. but if your husband decides to go off for a night of two out of town without you and it's not work related and he's not with his buddies, it might be because he's meeting her.
2007-11-28 15:58:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is without a DOUBT- cheating.
I would never (nor my hubby) dream of doing that. It is the first stages of cheating honey. You see, when guys cheat- they don't just on a spur of the moment- it is a situation that has been built up over some time. He has ZERO resepct for you- GET OUT NOW.
2007-11-28 15:56:40 · answer #4 · answered by Renesme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree, in case you may disguise it, or maybe ask others if its seen cheating, that's. I mean you're saying you does not evaluate it cheating, yet think of appropriate to the way you may incredibly experience if she did it. replace horny emails and try this telephone intercourse crap with the female you with. it will be purely as relaxing. in case you prefer extra relaxing then that examine a e book or play a video interest ugh
2016-10-09 22:01:59 · answer #5 · answered by ghil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is cheating. Maybe not physical yet but starting down that path. I speak from personal experience (that's how my husband started on his affair). Do something (whatever that may be) now before this progresses further. It will
2007-11-28 15:53:06 · answer #6 · answered by scl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not "physical" cheating, but it's emotional cheating, and that generally LEADS to physical cheating. Tell your husband that it's not "fun" for you and to grow up, sending dirty emails and messages to other people other then his wife isn't smart.
2007-11-28 16:25:45 · answer #7 · answered by Zyggy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its cheating.
1st its the internet
2nd is texting
3rd is phoneing
4th is hooking up
5th is affair
Stop it now!
Whats more important YOU or these little chats or whatever.
2007-11-28 15:52:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's inappropriate.
Why does he think this is acceptable behavior for a married man?
I hope she turns out to be a trannie. That would serve him right.
2007-11-28 15:59:39 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like he is having " fun" cheating.
Pack his things and tell him to move on out your going to start having "fun" without him.
2007-11-28 15:52:08 · answer #10 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋