I am very attractive and only weigh 124 pounds our sex life is great however he is on alot of meds . He has had two heartattcaks since I have been with him ( 2yrs now) and I do spice up our life and I do make the moves we both do, in fact I am very attractive to him in alk aspects, he has not had an affiar and yes I did confront him this evening and he has agreed to counseling because he says he loves me and does nbot want to lose me and that it was wrong and it won't happen again, but I am very leary I do not want to get hurt
Thank all of you for your quick and very helpful answers.
2007-11-28 15:27:54 · 7 answers · asked by Karen G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Most men wouldnt agree to counseling at all so your guy sounds like he is trying. Before you make any decisions give it a chance.
2007-11-28 15:32:42 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn to be there for others. If you are just me, me, me, then you might already have the answer. Try watching the porn with him, show him also, what you like. If he seems interested in something, then try it. This man has had 2 attacks, meds. I am sure he needs some good loving and the 2 of you just take it easy and relax togeather, and try to focus on each other. Do things togeather that make you both Smile.
2007-11-28 15:40:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is so used to seeing perfect young hard bodies doing perverse acts and that normal sexual interaction just doesn't turn him on anymore. I saw a special about this and they say that's what can happen. the more you do it the deeper you sink into sexual deviation. I would advise him to see a therapist who specializes in this particular area. He really needs to avoid porn all together in order to get his head straight.
Good luck, and I give you credit for supporting him, he needs it.
2007-11-28 15:38:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
...The fact that he made a mistake doesn't change who you are. You can forgive him and try to move on. Don't keep any record of what happened and never bring it up again.
...If it happens again then you can at least say you were sensible about it and gave it a shot.
...If you can not forgive him then you are allowing yourself to be a prisoner to the whole situation.
2007-11-28 15:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you think a little bit too much of yourself. Your not doing him a favor by being with him.
Maybe you need to think out your questions more because I have no idea what your even asking.!
2007-11-28 15:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by REMINGTON 270 BOLT ACTION 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So you don't want to get hurt. Well. Neither does the rest of us. What makes you think you are so special?
What you need to do is demonstrate that you have faith in him by offering your support.
Good luck.
2007-11-28 15:32:35 · answer #6 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
2 heartattackes u say.....and he is on meds.....can he still get an erection??? LOL
if he struggles then sweety welcome porn and watch it with him!!!!
yeah yeah it pollutes the mind when u watch it too much but seriously....will once in a while really hurt y'all sex life??
2007-11-28 15:34:06 · answer #7 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋