I have a friend who is nice and all, but when we go out in public she allways gets honked/whistled at..talked to by tons of men and rubs it in my face like her **** don't stink..when you tell her she looks pretty today she goes "i know, im a hot *****! haha" and tells me what I need to do with my wardrobe/hair to improve in the men department, She makes me feel low and that I should change how I look. What am I supposed to tell her so she knows it hurts my feelings, I never thought I looked THAT bad tho..
this is her (disregard the cig)
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v249/quacka/100_4566_edited-1.jpg
and this is me
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v249/quacka/ftog.jpg
2007-11-28 15:03:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If those two pictures are real then you really need to listen and believe what people are telling you. Both of you girls are beautiful, but that is only skin deep. When men look at her and whistle or flirt with her they only see the sex side of her.... and from the sound of it she is shallow enough to be content with that. That is actually pretty sad. When I look at you, or when they look at you they see a beautiful lady that could be just a beautiful on the inside. I don't think you can say anything that will show her how she hurts you. I realize I am just judging her by the cover, but really that is all I have to go on. I just hope you don't believe what she is telling you. You need to dress they way you feel good with, and don't change anything to look the way she thinks you should. Just be yourself and make yourself happy, if it means not hanging out with her, you might just have to do that. Good luck......
2007-11-28 15:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by Couple of Cents 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the reason guys whistle and honk at her is because she looks like a skank and an easy lay. I really didn't find her pretty at all. she had way too much makeup on and the acne wasn't very flattering either. You look way better than her and I hope you know that and don't feel insecure. It doesn't sound like she's the type of person you should be friends with. But if you really like her....tell her straight up that what she says is offensive and it hurts your feelings. If she is a good friend she will understand if not then screw her.
2007-11-28 23:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, i do not know what you are talking about. you are definitely hotter than her and while she is gonna end up with a player who will cheat on her every other day, you will find a sweet man who will love you to no end, believe me. no one should be able to make you inferior withou your consent. honey, you are gorgeous the way you are and you sould never let anyone make you feel otherwise. hugs =)
2007-11-28 23:33:42 · answer #3 · answered by annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She looks like a skank and you look like a natural beauty...never take her advice on changing your look; let her look like a ho, she'll attract all the wrong kind of guys and you will find a great one.
2007-11-28 23:31:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She looks kinda slutty; keep the look you have is much better and will attract a better quality guy.
2007-11-28 23:08:22 · answer #5 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋