2007-11-28 14:41:55 · 8 answers · asked by laxbritt 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Hell.
It's the basic fear of not surviving.
Animals in groups, WHAT?, yes, I'm going into evolutionary social psychology, although it's not proven, it at least makes some sense...
Animals in groups need each other, to watch out for predators, to raise children, to bring home the occassional kill, to find new shelter.
They depend on each other.
It is so deep in us to need acceptance, it's almost like needing our mothers when we're young.
2007-11-28 14:49:23 · answer #1 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have transcended the fear of being disliked. I have dealt with it so many times im accustomed to it. I usually have one or two that i can rely on that will stick with me to the end. I gain serious bonds with these people. Then the rest may have some kind of problem with me. The fear of being disliked means you lose approval of others. That can hurt. It stems from a need to belong. Some people dont have that need as much as others do. In fact some would prefer to be alone most of the time. They dont care about being disliked because they have solid bonds elsewhere that they can turn to. For the most part every human needs another human being who understands and accepts them. Whether its one or 50. Truly going it alone can be painful because humans need other humans, its engrained.
2007-11-29 07:32:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is one of the three human fears,
1. Fear of not being loved
2. Fear of not being good enough
3. Fear of not fitting in
Your fear is common, is it possible to start to imagine a world surrounding you that you do feel liked? maybe start to visualise this. Imagine having every thing you would like? you do have the power to have this, its simply a matter of choice?.
2007-11-29 01:18:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no fear in being disliked.If you are obnoxious, unsociable,vain,overbearing, inconsiderate and nasty you may very well be disliked by your peers. Then, you only have yourself to blame if people shun you, will not associate with you and steer clear when you approach. The result may be lonliness,depression, or other psychological hangups which I have forgotten 60 years after taking the course.
2007-11-28 23:01:12 · answer #4 · answered by googie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Fear of rejection which usually comes from low self esteem and past experiences.
2007-11-28 22:49:25 · answer #5 · answered by First Lady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's when you feel nobody will ever even think about being near you unless they have to be near you. Either that or they bully the crap out of you so bad that you get depressed, and you start to trust no one.
2007-11-28 22:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fear of having no one.........no one to love you and you will be alone
2007-11-28 22:47:46 · answer #7 · answered by just floating bye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
insecurity, immaturity, poor self-image, lacking in self-confidence.
2007-11-28 22:48:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋