will i date this guy for 2 years and It we always have prombles little prombles like why i came late? But this time we really had a bad horrible fight , we start fighting about why did i sleep in my friend's house (boy who is a friend) will what should i do!!!
2007-11-28 14:38:07 · 28 answers · asked by Samantha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you are in a relationship, you shouldn't be sleeping at another guy's house. Just a friend or not, that doesn't look right.
2007-11-28 14:41:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, WHY DID YOU SLEEP AT ANOTHER GUYS HOUSE? This is not the behavior of someone who is about to get married. I know people like to think that there is no difference in men and women being "friends" and for the most part that is right. But when you are in a COMMITED relationship the boundaries of the friendship has to change. However, I don't think it is right of him to ask why you are a second late getting home, and he sounds insecure. Have you given him reason to feel this way? You need to rethink this relationship and find out within yourself if you are truly ready for marriage.
2007-11-28 22:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by banger_sisster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl your not ready for marriage first off. you sound like me kinda, i've been with my b/f for almost 5yrs now and still have lots of problems our self. Your boyfriend is so insacure of him self that he, he takes it out on you but in so many different ways it sounds. If you have a guy friend ya, guys dont like it unless there friend with this other guy or you tell them he your brother. I seem to have the same problems girl. but more problems actually.
what i can only say is girl take 2 steps back from everything and think are you actualy ready for marriage to commit your self to one person and take on all the responiablitys yet? is your relationship good enough that you and your bf know what to expect from each of your selfs? Do you two make one person when your together or always fighting makeing two? If its two different ppl then it not right to get married yet. think hard and long back make sure your able to think with no one in the way of anything. just take a few steps back and figure all the small little stuff that is missing or not there..... that all i can tell ya i hope this helps you girl.
good luck
2007-11-28 22:50:43 · answer #3 · answered by kristyerin1988 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems both you have neither a communication skill, a common and mutual trust nor a common sense.
For one, if you are about to get married, you should be able to talk to each other without provoking a fight. For two, you should already know, sleeping at a house of an opposit sex can bring out lots of question, and for three, he doesn't seem to trust you. (may be vise versa?)
Lastly, you are asking complete strangers in a public place, "what should I do?"
Both of you need to mature enough before you commit to each other in marriage.
2007-11-28 22:43:53 · answer #4 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not being mean but putting boy and husband in the same sentenence with prombles...spells trombles!
2007-11-28 22:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by ugh192 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Little girls who cant spell or speak proper English dont get married!! Stop playing silly little games and let the people who have real questions get the answers they need. Your just wasting our time. I dont even think your old enough to be on here.
2007-11-29 04:37:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to examine that very question. Was there a hidden motive for staying there. If not you had to of known it would'nt fly with your man. You never should do anything that even looks bad like this does. Your wrong he's right.
2007-11-28 22:44:20 · answer #7 · answered by Doc Ryan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my husband slept in a girl friend's house there would be a hell of a fight... You wanna marry this guy? Grow up a bit.
2007-11-28 22:41:29 · answer #8 · answered by Serena d 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
sounds like he has some insecurity & jealousy issues
sleeping at another guys house is a bit much even if you
are just friends
would you believe he was just friends if he slept at a girls house ?
2007-11-28 22:44:43 · answer #9 · answered by mike t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should take a english/writing class and then get a life
2007-11-28 22:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by MomOf3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋