It's 10pm, should I do my work, go to bed and call in sick tomorrow, or just quit my soul sucking job?

Question

I know most people don't like their work, but I hate going to bed at night because I have to wake up and go to my job the next day. I deprive myself of sleep just so I can make the time go slower between night and morning. I actually like my boss but I hate my co-workers and my hours are so long. What am I to do?

Answer 1

I really think you are tired of your job.. and would have strongly recommended that you switch job but one think which striked me in the whole picture that you have described was that "you actually like your boss"..I am sure the boss also appreciates you...why don't you try and talk to your boss alone about your problems...
In the meanwhile , I would strongly advise you to start searching and applying for job where you may feel comfortable..
If it is a temporary problem than you can take the stress as all jobs have to some extent but no job is worth having sleepless nights... all the best for your future :-)

Answer 2

Hmmm, time to do some soul searching... you have job burnout it sounds like. That is awful, no matter what profession you're in.
I think personally think that it is not worth it to sit and suffer. Life is too short to feel that way, day after day. That being said, just up and quitting isn't the answer because you face a whole new set of problems with money, potential employment gaps, etc.... here are my thoughts...
1) Talk to your boss candidly and say that you are starting to feel as though you are having some burnout issues, and would like to either re-arrange your responsibilities, or try a different position within the workplace that is a better fit. Be prepared for them to say no. If they do, or waffle around on the issue, put on your best face, perform well, smile, and polish up your resume and start looking.
2) If you can afford it, consider taking an unpaid leave of absence, or using vacation time to destress. Polish up your resume and get a head start on looking for something else.

Here's something to keep in mind... is it the workplace or the type of work you're doing? If it's the workplace, perhaps switching to a different company but doing the same work would be an option... if it is the type of work itself, then your problems will follow because you are inherently dissatisfied with the type of work you are doing. In that case, network through friends, and try to find something in a different career area.
Good luck with your decisions

Answer 3

There are a lot of people in your situation. I would say, if you have NOTHING the fall back on (if u leave your job) DO NOT leave.
This job you are currently in may not be for you. Look for a job that will please you in life. Perhaps one that doesn't require you to wake up so early or stay in so late...You need a job you are pleased with so you can enjoy your life.
I wish you the best.

Answer 4

Start making a plan to quit. Do you need more training, do you know of a new job you want to interview for, etc.? In the mean time, consider taking Xanax.

Answer 5

stay with the job you have now while you search for another job. once you find a better job, give 2 weeks notice and tell the new boss you can start in 2 weeks.

Answer 6

Quit. Unless this job is your only option or you are making an unbelievable amount of money, your job isn't worth your happiness. If it really is soul sucking, I would rather keep my soul.

Answer 7

No job is worth that! There are other jobs that are more fulfilling (or at least potentially less hellish). QUIT!

Answer 8

Win the lottery.
Marry rich.
Have a rich relative die.
Accept that work and life in general suck and slogging through it one day at a time with out obsessing is best.
Suicide.

Answer 9

Quit! :)