In the middle of this whole saga and coming to a meeting in the middle what will happen to all of those negaitve allegations that were put against me. Can you "retract" a petition?
2007-11-28 12:43:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
I know these situations can be very confusing and emotionally traumatic. Let me give you some advice from bitter experience.
First of all, allegations made during a custody battle are part of the court record, and cannot be removed. And, as you found out, people can say the most unbelievably awful things. What's more, they can outright lie in an attempt to discredit you. Sadly, there is nothing illegal about this unless the happen to be on the witness stand.
All of that is part of the record, and once submitted it stays there. That is the bad part.
The good part is, no one will care.
Let me explain. While it is true the record of the court proceedings could be examined by someone, the chances that anyone would do this is slim.
And, anyone with ANY experience in these matters knows that people very often lie outrageously about the opposing party in order to get the judge to decide they are unfit.
And frankly, no one pays any attention to that nonsense.
The only people that believe that stuff are people who would believe bad things of you anyway - so no loss.
So, if you are worried about the nasty things your ex said about you in court - stop worrying. No one is going to see that record but you two, and only your enemies will believe the awful things said.
What's done is done, m'dear. Move on an don't look back!
2007-11-28 13:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by vic91106 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It varies from state to state. However, a petition contains just what you said it contains - allegations. Allegations are just allegations - not facts! Unless they are subsequently found to be true by the court (judge or jury depending on circumstance), they are just bare allegations. In most states you must answer each of the allegations, whether by denying or saying you l;ack sufficient information to affirm or deny. Consult your attorney!!!
2007-11-28 20:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by MelsBels 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no.
But keep in mind, what has been said cannot be changed. However, you may always retract a petition, unless, the State moved in. Than it's no longer in your hands.
2007-11-28 20:47:51 · answer #3 · answered by JD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to an attorney first. Do as he advises. Different laws in all States. Sounds like this is a delicate situation. So just get a lawyer.
2007-11-28 20:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by Sasha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have an attorney, he can better advise you. Different laws prevail in different states.
2007-11-28 20:46:36 · answer #5 · answered by Beau R 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋