My wife says it hurts too much to have intercourse. Why?

Question

She says it is because her vagina has dried out because of menepause. We have tried gels, but they don't change it at all.

Answer 1

There may be more to this than just vaginal dryness. She needs to go see her gyno and have an exam done.

Answer 2

There are creams that contain estrogen that she can try some are even available over the counter. Also she may be stressed and worried so try talking to her about what she is worried about - stress is a major culprit for both parties. Encourage her to drink plenty of water and try massaging her with a warming oil to increase blood to the area maybe even a "Rabbit" to deep stimulate and increase blood flow as well as relax her muscles. Her GYN may have some good advice too but many women just need to relax. She could have an infection lie Vulvitis or any number of Female Impotence
issues the important thing is to try some different approaches and see what works best for both of you. Good Luck!

Answer 3

When this happens, the elasticity that enables it to stretch no longer happens and can actually cause lesions to the vagina. She needs to see a good gyn to help with the problem.

Answer 4

There are hormonal gels you can get with a prescription, tell her to go to her Dr. Try astroglide in the meantime.

Answer 5

Your wife may possibly have an infection or a cyst. Her gyn should be able to help her out.

Answer 6

I think she should really see her GP. maybe try some foreplay and wehn you have special time together make it all about her. maybe you hould talk to her and ask her hows shes feeling. maybe she feels she and needs to talk to a girlfriend.

Answer 7

is she on any type of medicine?

thats is the most likley reason.
shes just having a hard time getting aroused and it has nothing to do with you.

Answer 8

She should see a doctor. Why ask us about your wife's vagina?

Answer 9

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