Ahh this is stressing me out so much, i can concentrate and always end up procrastinating on things. Any good advise for me. Please this is serious and its ruining my grades.
2007-11-28 10:26:44 · 9 answers · asked by Nishi 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Ask yourself a couple of questions:
What do you do when you're procrastinating? Just siting there? Day dreaming? Watching TV? Arguing with a family member or friend? Beating up other kids? What's actually occupying the time?
What do you get out of procrastinating? What's the benefit or reward for you when you do whatever you do to procrastinate? Does procrastinating provide you with stronger reasons you can give for your failure? Do you get excused by your parents or teachers? Do you get to fit in better with your friends or siblings?
What does what you do to procrastinate cost you? You mentioned that you're stressed out...but what's actually stressing you out? And what other "costs" can you identify?
Once you have those answers, ask yourself, what can you do to reach your goals now? You won't be able to stop procrastinating, but with these answers, you CAN start working toward your goals.
2007-11-28 11:15:57 · answer #1 · answered by livemoreamply 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Procrastination is considered a sin, an iniquity...because it breeds delays, harm, alarm, broken dreams, failures, disappointments and nuisance..See it doesnt result to anyhting positive, may it be a work, a relationship, a sickness, a word or a promise and even studies...the best way to combat this negative character is "focus" and" effort" and a strong determination, a strong-willed head...........what you can really do today, don't put it off for tomorrow, and certainly what a releif if things done on time and better yet in time...so don't delay things otherwise you will always panic, run after time, fail and at last no way to find a remedy because it is too late to make up for the lost time....so time is your enemy here..dont flow with the time ..beat the time.....ok???
2007-11-28 11:13:05 · answer #2 · answered by E@rthGoddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just force yourself to do it. And if you can, try eliminating distractions.
Or better yet, since you say it's ruining your grades, continue to procrastinate. Then when you see your final grade, that should light a fire under you to stop procrastinating and start concentrating.
The choice is yours. Good luck.
2007-11-28 10:33:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get off Yahoo answers for a start! You have to find some way to force yourself into working. Is there anywhere you can go with just you and your books, with no chance of distraction? If you can find someone who is willing to watch you and make you work of you procrastinate, that might be helpful too.
2007-11-28 10:36:41 · answer #4 · answered by Rembrandt Q. Einstein 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound similar to me. But it may be well every now and then. You must bring an schedule and set instances to do designated matters..and take breaks as soon as in a whilst...do not make your self research for two-three hours nonstop considering undoubtedly it does not paintings. procrasitination is a dependancy that takes time to conquer...its approximately self-motivation. Set a time to do whatever! and inform your self you have got to do it it doesn't matter what...When it has to do with tuition and learning I cross to a library on campus in which tons of humans my age research for hours...it motivates me being round humans my age and being on a institution campus. Going right into a give up room with not anything round to distract is helping...Keep the matters that distract you AWAY...lock them at the closet or whatever...luckily I'm the Worst procrasitinater and nonetheless control to get A's however its no longer well to have within the activity subject! it is going to grow to be extra annoying and will threat wasting your activity. Anyhow I might speak on your document and spot a counselor if its that dangerous...they have got higher suggestions or exersises to aid you..or google it :) oh sure being totally equipped continues me targeted!..on matters you must be doing
2016-09-05 16:14:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FOCUS!!!!!!!! I had a really hard time with this in high school, but I thought that if I wanted to get anywhere in life I was going to have to get good grades. What are you doing on the computer anyway??? Shouldn't you be studying???"?
2007-11-28 10:31:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try turning off the Internet and TV, and radio. Get rid of any other distractions as well!
2007-11-28 11:04:40 · answer #7 · answered by qu1ck80 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why, why cant you just sit think and get off the computer. If you want to help yourself so badly you'll get off yahoo answers, myspace, facebook, or youtube and get homeworking!
2007-11-28 12:18:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try eliminating the distractions, it will do wonders in preventing procrastinations
Failing this, reward youself for doing work!
2007-11-28 10:31:34 · answer #9 · answered by day Dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋