i got arranged married to a man from pakistan when i was 18 (2 yrs ago). i am from US i didn't fite my parents about it cuz i went into it like ok maybe it will be for good since i was crazy girl party and goofy etc. so first i fought my parents in pakistan cuz they wanted to marry me to a older guy and i wanted to get married to him i saw hiss picture and thought hey atleast he is good looking. my parents wanted me to marry well to do family but i still said i want him. he appreciated this for six months after coming to us. then he had to move to another city for job and started acting sooo distant i cried practically for a year. lost weight looked stressed all the time. i gave him my heart and he would not care about what i want in bed just push me in a weird way to suck his dik and if i say sumthng wouldn't tlak to me.if ask him why he is treating me like this he wouldn't talk, then i started feeling dreaming that he is doing sumthing behind my back, when i was pregnant he didn..
2007-11-28 10:22:01 · 1 answers · asked by baby doll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
didn't care he wouldn't do any work to make me feel better. same ****. so after 5 montsh into pregnnacy i go to my parents house for a week he would come later. so after spending the weekend there we come home and i see all this **** on computer different emails porn and i am sure other things since he forgot to delete good search bar but deleted history and temp files. he starts crying like crazy so i find he had myspace but denied it for a month then said he got it to see if i had one bullhshit . i am tired of finding stuff because he changes every six months who knows what else he hides that he doesn't even admit when i put it in front of him.
2007-11-28 10:28:24 · update #1
now i had my baby its like i just be nice cuz i feel bad for him what shuld i do. he is considered a good sweet boy by parents workers and everybody else. he is a true jerk when u get to know him who thinks since he came to US he can do whatevere. i want to use him like he used me should i do it??? i know its bad but i cna't live my life thinking he used me
2007-11-28 10:31:37 · update #2
Of coarse he is not going to treat you with love and respect. You are simply a possession to him.
If it is love and respect that you want you have to go out there and get it. It is not going to simply come to you.
You deserve better. Now go get it.
Good luck. I will pray for you.
2007-11-28 10:28:23 · answer #1 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋