Do you think someone who is Bipolar (untreated in all ways)....and is leading a very risky lifestyle right now (spending excessively, not paying bills, drinking and partying a lot, hanging out with the wrong kind of friend, accepting a marriage proposal from a girl she has only know like 2 and a half months, and a few other shady things)....do you think that after being with me for almost 5 years that she will regret what she did in the near future or at least some day? Even though we had our share of problems...and I have my pscyhological problems as well (OCD and BPD).....But even with her being nasty to me lately really bad and her making things out to be worse that they were between us and telling her friends that stuff, I was always there for her....even after she left me this time. And she left me once before this time too, maybe like 5 months before this time. So with her making out to seem like the 'devil'.....if it was you, and you were as unhappy as she is making it seem ..
2007-11-28 09:03:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
right now...would you have came back to me the first time you left then, when you could have stayed gone??
P.S. - Me and her are both girls, just so there is no confusion.
2007-11-28 09:03:54 · update #1
And oh yes...I have been getting help for my problems....for a year and a half now. I am slowly but surely getting better and even though I did not change over night and it will still be a process, I am working on myself everyday.
24 minutes ago
MISTAKE....I meant to say with her acting like I'm the 'devil'
2007-11-28 09:04:27 · update #2
I think you should just concentrate on yourself right now. If she doesn't want to get help and is doing what she's doing, it's her life. Obviously, she is sick and probably doesn't know what she wants so maybe she doesn't even realize what she's doing. People always say bad things about relationships when they leave, even if they don't mean them. If I were you I would try to stay away from her, keep getting your treatment, stay with your program, and get yourself well. It's too much of a struggle just to get through your own problems without worrying about what she did or why. Good Bless and Good Luck.
2007-11-28 09:16:51 · answer #1 · answered by cathead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, regrets here Lady!! she flew the nest one time too many, now she is out there with whom ever and that where she will stay. Its doesn't matter to her if she regret it so or later because she know you will take her back when she return to your door step. So, what is there to worry about it, right? That is why she return to you for the second time. So I would suggest that you should let her go and work on your own issues before get back out there in the dating game. Good luck...
2007-11-28 17:16:49 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever try to figure what is going through another person's mind...especially when they have mental issues. You can never predict what they are going to do...so why waste your time worrying about it. Just work on yourself, making yourself a better person, so one day you can find a good person for yourself. And believing in Karma helps too.
2007-11-28 17:12:09 · answer #3 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, it sounds like you're the one w/ the regrets. Let go & let God. You'll meet someone better for you.
2007-11-28 17:16:25 · answer #4 · answered by J Doe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU BOTH WERE BIPOLOR......LOL DID U GUYS BEAT THE CRAP OUT OF EACH OTHER THEN LAUGH YOUR A$$ OFF THE NEXT??
2007-11-28 19:12:53 · answer #5 · answered by mtnhotte 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋