I need help with an abortion question?

Question

i am less then a month and i took a test about a week ago i have been looking into it and a abortion would cost over 4 hundered and i live in CO does anyone know pssibly what i can do and i dont care about anyone telling me here that its a bad idea and i am killing something cause i am not it has no heart no brain and does not breath its a little thing of nothing that could be something but i can let it get that far so i dont need no hate answers i just need really people with real answers to help me

its my choice and i want be keeping myself awake well do all of you cry when you walk on grass thats living breathing and growing what about when you stuff your face with meat that is living breathing moving has a heart beat and can even feel then pain of dying but it has to cause you want more

Answer 1

well i dont wanna type alot but my site might help u that i made after i had an abortion

http://abortionsupportsite.blogspot.com

Answer 2

Regardless of your situation, your baby is innocent and does not deserve to die. Just a week after you miss your period, your baby's heart is already beating. Take a look at this information before you do something you will regret the rest of your life:

Photos and Video of Abortions, Including 1st Trimester Abortions:
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html

Information on All Aspects of Abortion:
http://Abort73.com

Photos and Facts About Prenatal Development:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html

Abortion Stories:
http://abortiontv.com/Words/truestoriesfrom-mothers.htm
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-G-2-testimony.html
http://www.teenbreaks.com/abortion/girlswhoaborted.cfm

Abortion Risks:
http://afterabortion.info/complic.html
http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp
http://www.teenbreaks.com/abortion/complicationsgirls.cfm
http://www.bcpinstitute.org/brochure.htm

Abortion Deaths:
http://www.lifedynamics.com/Pro-life_Group/Pro-choice_Women
http://www.afterabortion.info/news/abortiondeaths.html
http://www.lifeissues.org/ru486/deaths.htm

Free, Confidential Pregnancy Help (including referrals for financial, medical, legal, and housing assistance; free pregnancy tests and ultrasounds; free maternity and baby supplies; pregnancy, parenting, and adoption information; counseling and emotional support):
US: http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp
International: http://www.heartbeatinternational.org/worldwide_directory.asp

Support for Pregnant Teens:
http://standupgirl.com/site/index.php

Answer 3

If you want to have an abortion go ahead and do it. People on her will tell you other wise, but they don't have to raise it. It is your body and you can do what you want. If you don't want to carry the baby to give it up for adoption this is your only choice. Don't be bullied into not having it. About 13 years ago a girl I was having sex with (who told me she was on b/c) became pregnant. (I don't know if I was the father or not) Anyway, both of us were not ready to have a child. She had an abortion. She is now married with 2 children and I have no regrets.

Answer 4

Seriously wait a few weeks and see how you feel then, talk to close friends/family you might just change your mind. I got pregnant at 16, nearly 17, and didnt have a clue what to do, i considered abortion, but only because I was confused and scared, I kept my baby and he is now 2 years old tomorrow and I absolutely love him to bits, my life is so much better with him in it and I am so glad I kept him. My sister had an abortion, she got pregnant around the same time as me and she has spent 2 years regretting what she did, she is now pregnant again and is sooo happy. Please please take your time and think about it, Im glad i did, i wouldnt give him up for the world.

Answer 5

From your question alone I sense a bit of guilt. I am not here to judge you, but usually the people looking for abortion help don't come off the bat defending themselves before they have to. I personally understand what you are going through, and how you feel at this very moment, and I am not sure if you have anybody with you as a support person or not, but it sounds to me like you need to cry! have a good long cry and really think this through. I have two crazy little boys, I had one at age 17, and one at age 21, I also had an abortion. Although raising two kids by myself is indeed difficult, I can tell you that the emotional pain of my abortion was far worse. In your question you say that "it has no heart no brain and does not breathe" Are you trying to convince me of that or are you trying to convince yourself of that? You are in a position right now where you feel helpless, desperate and possibly scared and alone. You should really confide in someone that you trust. You are probably looking for a quick fix to your "problem" but I know from experience that it is not a quick fix, and that it really has lasting damage to your psychological well-being. While I am not in any position to judge any one, I would like to offer you advice and help in any way that I can. I know how you feel and how big this decision is for you. You are more than welcome to send me an e-mail for anything that you would like to talk about!

Answer 6

Week 5: Have a Heart
Your baby looks a lot like a tadpole this week, with a rudimentary head and a tail. But don't worry — there's no frog in your future. In fact, you're fewer than eight months away from holding a real prince (or princess) in your arms.

It takes a lot of developing to become a baby — all the major (and minor) bodily systems (digestive, circulatory, nervous, and so on) and organs (heart, lungs, stomach…you get the idea) have to form from scratch. One of the first systems to be operational is the circulatory (or blood) system — along with its companion organ: the heart. Right now, your baby's heart is made up of two tiny channels called heart tubes — and they're already hard at work, beating to their own drummer (it will be weeks before those beats become coordinated). When those tubes fuse together, your baby will have a fully functioning heart (though it almost certainly already has its grip on yours). Also in the works this week are several other organs, including the neural tube (the precursor to your baby's brain and spinal cord), which hasn't yet sealed, but by next week, that open-door policy is over. it does have a heart next time you decide to have sex get on birth control and use a condom!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

Well I am going to say it even if you don't want to read it. This is how you and I started and everyone else did as well. It is easy to say it isn't alive yet, but any intelligent person knows that isn't true. My friend had an abortion and you just don't get over it. Many women go into depression after they go through with this. It is possible that there will come a day in your life that you regret this decision horribly.
Don't come on a wide ranged forum and demand that people not say what they think, obviously you weren't thinking when you decided to have sex and didn't want to get pregnant, and now you aren't thinking when you come to Yahoo answers and expect everyone to be okay with Killing a baby. There are so many on here that try and try to concieve and then have to see your stupid posts about you not even caring.
Well you really show your intelligence by comparing an unborn baby to grass, idiot, it is how we are all formed and what the crap does grass have to do with this??

Answer 8

I'm not going to be like others and try to force my beliefs on you simply because I'm not that type of person.

Check into planned parenthood or other sexual health clinics, possibly even a walk in clinic. If they won't do it for free, then look into monthly billing to cover it. Most places will make arrangements because abortions are in the moment "oh no fix the situation now" sort of things.

Look into insurance as well.

Protect yourself in the future. Don't ever let a guy choose the birth control and don't depend on a guy to use it. They're not as smart as us. no offense to men, but it's the women's bodies that go through changes and we're the ones left with a child to raise. We should take better care of our selves. Look into birth control.

It's your body and you should do what you feel is right. I don't know anything about you other than you don't want this baby. I'm 20 years old and in college right now I wouldn't want a child either and I can't judge because I don't know what I would do until I'm put in that situation. Others shouldn't judge you. I think you need to talk to a trusted adult or a professional at a clinic to see what is best for you. You never know, you may realize you do want this child. Honestly we don't know so it's hard to give advice on a touchy subject like this. Just talk it over with some mature adults who can be trusted and make your decision. Also if possible, bring the father along too, he has just as much right in the situation as you since it's also his child. He can't force you to have an abortion though.

Answer 9

The meat I eat or the grass I walk on I can't compare to my kids. I do not think you'll get alot of " hate" answers as you already sound as if you're carrying enough of that in the way you express yourself.

Answer 10

So, it sounds as if your issue is the cost of the procedure?

If you can't afford it, check with your local government assistance office. Often, you can get "emergency" health care that will cover the costs involved (I know you can do this here in CA, just not sure of the CO requirements).

Also, your local women's clinic will have more information on how to get these benefits, and I'm sure they'd be willing to work with you on a payment plan if you don't qualify.

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Wow...some of these answers are SOOO offensive! Let's not forget, everyone, that we live in a country where we all have the right choose our own religious beliefs...I'm glad you all have yours, but try to keep in mind that not everyone feels the same way. If Jessie's religion says that life begins at birth, then you all need to back the heck off.

And check you all out! Giving thumbs-downs for completely viable answers that actually address the question, unlike what you have posted, which doesn't help at all! What an amazing bunch of judgmental people you are...Let's guess...you're all Christians? Try to remember the biblical phrase, "Judge not lest ye be judged". True Christians will know that God will handle whatever judgments need to be made...it's not your place! Jesus turned the other cheek...why can't you?

Signed,
Christian anti-abortionist who still believes in the right to choose.

Answer 11

Is there a local women's clinic or planned parenthood? Go to them and discuss your options. There are plenty of clinics out there that offer services of all kinds on a sliding scale. The one in my area will even do general health. It'll be okay. Stay safe.