Iam Bi....but i aint come out the closet as yet....anywayz i told my friend dat iam bi and everything....and she told my friend...lol....but watever...but now iam scared she gonna tell everybody....how am i suppose to handle This..or wat to do....any advice best answer 10 points i promise
2007-11-28 08:16:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Be proud of who you ARE. I don't know how old you are, but you sound sort of young. Believe me, every gay or bi or lesbian person is somewhat afraid of *coming out* but since you told your friend and she told HER friend and it will be *out* ( pardon the pun) soon anyway. You are not a bad person. Accept and love yourself. If your friends can't deal, they are not your REAL friends.
2007-11-29 07:42:28 · answer #1 · answered by PURR GIRL TORI 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some things are best kept to yourself. If you are bi. learn to satisfy yourself until you are confident that you can share your intimate secret. It would be real nice if you could find a guy and girl friend that you can enjoy. There are clubs where bi's meet. Even over the net. But don't go around blabing your business. I made a simular mistake. Now when I see the person I act like the conversation never hppened. I'm waiting for him to bring it up. I will deny the conversation ever took place. That is my advise to you.
2007-11-28 08:42:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 06:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your 2 friends who know you're bi, and explain to them that you're not ready to come out to the whole world yet. Make it very clear to them how important it is to you for them to NOT tell anyone until YOU feel ready to let others know, and swear them to secrecy. If they violate your trust by outing you to other people, you'll know they're untrustworthy and you should immediately dump them as friends.
Beyond that, I'm not sure what else you can do
2007-11-28 08:29:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Relax!.This its not the end of the world,it's just the beginning of a new world for you.Just be yourself,after all,it's your life,and you may do whatever you want with your own life.
2007-11-28 08:40:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel..i told my best friend i was gay then she told my other friend. i wasnt surprised cuz i knew she couldnt keep a secret lol. then i met a coworker who was gay and i was able to tell her and she already figured i was gay but i had to be careful on who i told because alot of ppl i work with know my sister, and for one i dont get along with her and i dont like her. but one of these days ima shout it, " IM GAY " it feels good saying it but its going to feel even better when i dont have to hide it anymore....oh i told my brother so that was another huge step and hes kool with it.
2007-11-28 08:41:40 · answer #6 · answered by orange_crush_05 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want people to know, you shouldn't have told!
But anyways, you might as well come out with it. You have nothing to be ashamed of, and you got a lot of people on your side! And ALWAYS be yourself and true to yourself!!! :)
2007-11-29 07:20:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
dont be nervous. you shouldn't be afraid to be yourself. being gay or bi isn't even a big deal. i know a ton of people who came out and no one acted differently towards them.
2007-11-28 08:20:25 · answer #8 · answered by muggle :( 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes let me take u around see the world with my eyes i here no worries.
2007-11-28 09:47:20 · answer #9 · answered by hogun 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look sounds to me like the got a freak thing going on so i would say keep that **** to your self so no one business but yours and if your with a girl and do some thing hay that o.k don't say nothing if your with a guy what you do behind close doors hay that's your business no one Elsa's . ok
2007-11-28 08:26:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋