Life,like the whol boy girl thing, having a baby.. IS it normal to disgust me, Im 14.. And it seems so weird!
2007-11-28 07:59:52 · 20 answers · asked by teen♥gurl 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
you are 14, yeah it is totally normal :)
It did me when I was 14. Now I am an adult and I am happily married and we are expecting our first child in January.
2007-11-28 08:03:29 · answer #1 · answered by Fenway♥George 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It IS wierd. It IS disgusting. I'm doing it anyway, but I'm 33~and never thought about getting pregnant once until I was in my mid-twenties. Even then it was a distant thought. I wasn't ready until now, after finding a good mate, and getting aLOT of living done. So yes, it is normal to feel that way. What makes you think it isn't? Maybe in the 1800s a 14 year old girl would feel differently, but she would probably have grown up seeing women having babies and helping with all sorts of womanly things that we aren't really exposed to since everyone goes to doctors and hospitals for everything.
2007-11-28 08:35:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep...at your age it's quite normal. In fact I wish that more kids your age were disgusted by it. Maybe then we wouldn't have so many teenagers trying to be adults by having unprotected sex etc because they *think* that they are grown.
And at 34...even I think that having a baby (the actual act itself) it VERY DISGUSTING. There's a ton of blood and all this fluid YUCK!! Sure you get a great baby out of it....but at the same time it's like having the worst period of your life and EVERY person in the world getting to see your bottom while it's happening.
And sex...don't worry...that also will grow on you in time. It could be something to talk to a counselor about (like a school counselor or even your parents about) if it makes you feel that concerned about it.
But I still feel that it's more than normal...I lost my virginity at the age of 20....until I was around 17-18 the thought of sex hadn't even crossed my mind. I got flutters in my stomach seeing guys etc....BUT I couldn't even imagine wanting to let that "thing" touch me!! LOL
Good luck....and stay young...being an adult sucks!!!!
2007-11-28 08:19:49 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Sunshine 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are still young and I am glad to hear that the thought repluses you at 14. I don't know that it disgusted me but I was not sure about the whole thing when I was 14. When/If you find the right person later in life it will all make sense to you then. Just make sure you do what is right for you and not what everybody else thinks you should do. That is the road to true happiness. Follow your gut.
2007-11-28 08:05:29 · answer #4 · answered by jj48bv25 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Does it disgust me that 14 year olds have babies? Or does sex disgust me? It is normal for both to disgust you at your age. I wouldn't worry about it. When the time is right for you, you will start to feel differently. You don't need to rush into things like this :) You have your whole life to get there!
2007-11-28 08:04:45 · answer #5 · answered by Jess 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are still young. It will not seem disgusting later on in life. I use to think it was gross as well but that changed
2007-11-28 08:02:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, at least you're not trying to get pregnant, so YAY!!
i'm sure it's normal to be disgusted by it at your age. more normal than wanting to do it right away, i imagine!
i'm twice your age, though. and i think it's a beautiful thing
27 weeks pregnant
2007-11-28 08:21:53 · answer #7 · answered by Ember Halo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its great that it disgusts you at 14. It'll keep you from ending up in that situation.
2007-11-28 08:05:45 · answer #8 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It might disgust you now, that's probably normal. Wait a few years and it won't seem weird at all :)
2007-11-28 08:05:03 · answer #9 · answered by Kam is 2! 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Good, Stay disgusted until you're at least 22 and married =)
2007-11-28 08:09:11 · answer #10 · answered by ☆ღWifey Wifeyღ☆ 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋