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Hi everyone , I just really wanted to get everyones oppion on this before i do something... I have never met my dad. Him and my mom got a devorcie when i was born. i am now about to be 21 years old in december and i found out where he lives and his phone number. do u think its a good idea to try and talk to him/meet him? i live with my mom now its just me and her i have no sibllings...and i really just wanna met him to see if i have any step brothers or sisters and just meet him to see what he looks like and maybe get to know him. he only lives 3 hours away from where i live... anyways...im getting mixed feelings about doing this.

what do u guys think i should do?

2007-11-28 07:39:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music Polls & Surveys

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go ahead, i did it after 38 yrs. You got nothing to loose,but maybe 21 yrs. of wondering.........

2007-11-28 07:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

you know... I'd suggest googling his address and write him a letter. it may give him more time to sink in what's going on rather than to just pick up the phone and call... i met my real dad when I was 17.. we were hours apart as well so we wrote letters back and forth for a few weeks and talked on the phone... I now have step brother and sister that I am building a relationship with.. I say go for it, but be open minded. he probably has more family and hearing from you will be shocking.. Good luck to you!

2007-11-28 23:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by Sugar 5 · 1 1

Can you have someone else contact him for you?

I can only try to imagine getting a phone call out of the blue from a daughter I have never known. Maybe your mom can call him or write him and ask if it's OK. But if you don't go that way, then I say write him a letter, and explain briefly who you are, and ask if you can contact him further. I can't speak for him, but if it was me, I'd say yes.

2007-11-28 15:46:21 · answer #3 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0 0

Jessica,
Keep in mind one thing before you meet him and that is to prepare for the worst just in case. Any person can have a baby but it takes a MAN to be a father. It is hard to be rejected by your own flesh and blood but it happens and I think you should talk to him but remember he may not come running with open arms so please clear your mind and think it over. I wish you the best and hope your holiday is spent with mom and dad.

2007-11-28 23:04:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

If he did not reach you in 21 years i wouldn't bother on calling him or visiting him
If knows that he has a daughter somewhere out there and never looked for you then he does not deserve to meet you

2007-11-28 15:44:35 · answer #5 · answered by ¬¬ 5 · 1 0

He might have regrets about not having a part in your life, and would like to know you.But he might be afraid to approach you after so many years. If it's that important to you. I say go ahead, but keep in mind, you might get hurt.

2007-11-28 15:54:24 · answer #6 · answered by Jenn 7 · 0 0

Go forward with your eyes wide open be prepared for the good or the bad. Either is better than not knowing.

2007-11-28 15:47:26 · answer #7 · answered by Madam Naka 7 · 1 0

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