How do I tell my boyfriend of 2 years that I am bisexual?

Question

I have always been attracted to both genders, but I never really realized what that meant, so how do I go about telling my boyfriend?

I love him. I do not like the idea of threesomes. I am not shallow or promiscuous. I am not looking for anyone else. I just want him to know.

Answer 1

make sure hes calm when you tell him this, and just tell him that you want to be totally hosnest with him then tell him that your bisexual. he wiilll probablly understand, if he dosnt, then give him some time, it may shock him a little at first but if he really dosnt understand after all of that, hes not worth it. hope this helped!!! good luck!!

Answer 2

even if it "doesnt matter" if she is bisexual, because she loves him and is in a relationship, when people are asumign ur straight when ur not, u feel liek ur fake, or lying.
i wud jus wait for a chummy moment an bring up what he thinks about it, an tell him about what it means to be bisexual. i know the gurl i was seeing when she found out i thought i was bisexual freaked out, she basically thought it meant i wus suckin dick behind her back, going to hell ect. *blushes an sweats*
so if u jus make it a discusion to feel out his thoughts on bisexuals, then maybe u cen tell him what it is to be bisexual, an say u think u are, an it wont be such a shock, or he wont take it badly.
u shud also be prepaired for him to be ungentalmany about it, a lot of straight guys think a girl being bisexual basically means that shell have a three some with him, an he may not take the fact that ur bisexual seriously, just something for his sexual pleasure ♥

Answer 3

If you are in a monogamous relationship, then it doesn't matter which sex (or sexes) you are attracted to because you are only sleeping with one person anyway.

When you are in a relationship, you are only him-sexual (him being your boyfriend).

It doesn't matter if you're attracted to both, because it's not like you can pursue anybody because you're not even single.

Answer 4

Start by asking him what he thinks of bisexual women. If he is repulsed, don't tell him, and think about getting a new boyfriend. If he says "its no big deal", then ask him what he thought if YOU were bisexual. It always helps to ask, but sometimes you have to be a little indirect about it.

Answer 5

You're sounding like you want to be promiscuous (as most bisexuals and homosexuals are anyway), not just attracted to both sexes. If you're with someone right now, it shouldn't even matter.

Answer 6

Ask him to have a 3 some he might like it>Then you don't have to tell him anything>Telling him about yourself will not be a good idea> If he doesn't agree than don't tell find some 1 else or it will haunt you for quite a while>And everyone will know>Just my thought>

Answer 7

Well if you're going to have a threesome at least tell him before you do! That happened to me once unexpectedly and I didn't really appreciate it!! Lol. Looking back on it I laugh but it wasn't very funny at the time! It's like SURPRISE!!

Answer 8

Try explaining it calmly and let him ask you a couple questions when your done telling him.Im not saying hell be happy and im not saying hell be mad.You never know, he caould also be a bisexual.

Answer 9

I agree with Bonjour. I was married for 3 years before I told my husband I am bi. He was kind of mad at me for not telling him before, but he was fine with it. He thinks its hot. I don't know why I never told him, I guess it never came up.

Answer 10

You jus have to tell him he'll prolly think its hott, but i mean u gotta be honest with him, i think he will appreciat the fact that ur being honest.