Once I get married, I plan only to have sex with my wife and never masturbate unless I am away on a business trip or something. Do you think I can do it?
2007-11-28 07:16:55 · 31 answers · asked by airforcewolf 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If I do, will I end up like Lester from American Beauty?
2007-11-28 07:28:58 · update #1
i guess, what is funny is why would you want to when you have the real thing ready for you???I'd never want my hubby to go have to do that, im always there for him, and he for me
2007-11-28 07:48:22 · answer #1 · answered by blakesgal 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sure you can! But why? There is absolutely no reason to. You wait. You and your wife will get comfortable, you won't be getting it on as much as you like, and rather than making your wife feel inadequate... Fact is that most sex experts say it is healthy to masturbate. Why stop when you're married? Doesn't make sense.
2007-11-28 15:25:24 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Marriage does not cure masturbation. It is like someone who drinks a lot never desiring a drink the moment they walk out of a bar. Masturbation is about training your brain to enjoy a certain type of sex - sex where you own complete control of all of your harum in your brain. Masturbating to fantasy brings a certain chemical reaction in your brain. Sex with a human - like your future wife - is a different and more intimate act. Because she is human she will say no. Your fantasy women never say no.
Bottom line, I would suggest you stop masturbating now and prepare yourself for your wife and the reality of being with just one human being and not your fantasy harum.
2007-11-28 15:28:22 · answer #3 · answered by Gary 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong with masturbation unless you neglect your wife to masturbate. Anyone that says they don't do it is, I hate to say, a liar. To answer the question, if you did it before you got married, then you will continue afterwards.
2007-11-28 15:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, its not possible. If you stop, you will last less than 30 seconds with your wife, and she will not be happy. Personally, I get much more enjoyment and mileage out of the time with my wife if I've happened to blown a little "steam" off a day or two before we get together.
2007-11-28 16:11:55 · answer #5 · answered by BradNahler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's possible to masturbate only on business trips. But the Rev. Jimmy Swaggart will tell you.........the hookers charge nearly as much for the inspiration as the real thing.
2007-11-28 16:04:49 · answer #6 · answered by noshaymatall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's ridiculous, man. You must really hate your penis. She may not want sex all the times you are wanting to bust a nut. Then what? Punish your penis because of bad timing on her part? Bad idea. I suggest using masturbation as a back-up if you must, but do not attempt to exclude it from your life. It's unhealthy in several ways.
2007-11-28 15:44:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were married to me you would be to tired to choke the chicken , pick your mate wisely and discuss all of this before marriage, sex may not hold a marriage together but a marriage with out sex will fall a part or one of you will cheat...good luck
2007-11-28 15:27:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you? you can masturbate together. theres a time of the month some but not all women would like to keep to there selves. and for the men who think with there penis masterbating can keep you from cheating as long as your relationship is already strong.
2007-11-28 15:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by dove272005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha!!! that was sooooo funny!! I love listening to people before they get married!!! thats cute. Dude, get used to mastrubation- its not a bad thing....no wife is going to want to have sex with you 4 times a day and no one can blame her.
2007-11-28 17:00:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to? Unless your new wife is jealous of your hand...hellooo
2007-11-28 15:56:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋