My sister got raped about 5 1/2 months and some weeks ago. She is now pregnant. What should we do? She went to the doctors for her normal check up and they told her that she is about 5 months pregnant. Please give so good adn positive advise because it is not like my sister is a fast and hot female. she is a laid back person who like school.
2007-11-28 05:17:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
don't kill her baby. I mean its sad that she is birthing the child of a rapist. but it is also her child even though she herself is a child. do not do an abortion. do not kill a baby. I think she and your family should go away for a little while. like on a mini vacation until she gives birth. Let your parents raise the child when its born so that your sister can go back to school.
2007-11-28 05:29:18 · answer #1 · answered by Curious 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Oh no not that. But don't worry its not the end of the world.
Some people say everything happens for a reason like when i got cancer in grade 2 it made me a better person to a degree.So im not going to say sorry for this blessing it may be a mistake form those evils guys but you all will love this baby!
Maybe you should keep the baby I don't think you can get a abortion now. Keep her in school and let her live her life
normally but help her take care of it like you and her mom and dad and any other brother and sister don't doom this child up for adoption let it be raised with love and care.
Remember your sister is probably going through a whole lot right now and I mean a whole lot god only knows what shes feeling!
I'm twelve too but please listen my answer is just as good as any.
Raise the baby, I can tell your a really happy family make another life happy too!
As for the rape shes probably going through allot from that alone!
Talk to her about that and maybe a psychiatrist so she doesn't get depression...maybe not but you all have to talk to her and tell her its going to be OK!
Make sure you told the police and there looking so this wont happen again!
Don't worry about this fork in the road everything will work out i promise!
Life's a challenge... your in my prayers!
-Christina xoxox
I hope i helped
2007-11-28 06:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by cbabysnugglebunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I'd contact authorities and get charges pressed against this sicko.
I know this seems like a case for abortion if there ever was one, but it is still a human life inside of her. And you don't want to victimize her twice by forcing her to go through with that or pressuring her to. Abortion's not the answer. Adoption might be better. Maybe if you are old enough you could adopt the child.
Try to get her into some Christian-based counseling. A lot of the local pregnancy testing centers can help her there.
Ultimately I don't think you will have much say so in the outcome, not being her or her parent...but just be there for her no matter what happens. She is going to have a lot of issues to deal with for a long time.
I'm so sorry to hear about this...Best wishes....
2007-11-28 05:24:57 · answer #3 · answered by aaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well she may be young but there isn't anything you can really do about it now! Just when the baby is born let her make the decision if she would like to keep to or give it up for adoption! After all it is her child! I was also raped at a young age and became pregnant so I do know what she is going threw! I now have a beautiful daughter who is 5! My Blessings go out to you and your Family! If you have any further questions don't hesitate to ask! Im me at Diamonds4Amberly18.
2007-11-28 05:30:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU are a wonderful sister. I wish that I had a sister (I don't have one) who is a dear and concerned person. Both of you can go to your parents, grandparents or caretaker providers and tell them what is occurring. Also, the person who "raped" her should be reported. No one who is a "minor" is a willing participant in a sexual event. This certainly covers your 12-year-old sister. I want to share some of my favorite scriptures with you and your sister. What shall we then say to these things? If GOD be for us, WHO can be against us? - Romans 8:31. The Lord daily loadeth us with BENEFITS, even the God of our salvation. Selah. - Psalm 68:19. When you enter a room or building, quietly say "Peace Be To This House." - Luke 10:5 - The folk within the premises will not understand why they are of a peaceful attitude. Try it, it really works. On a daily basis, read Psalm 35 to (Plead My Cause) - This is a long-winded and worthwhile psalm. This is a sincere request to our Father above for his almighty help in taking care of that which is "known" and that which is "unknown." You and your dear sister will do well. I truly believe this. Peace, Love and God Bless.
2007-11-28 05:24:37 · answer #5 · answered by In God We Trust 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If she was raped, she needs to go to the police if she hasn't already.
Since it may be too late for an abortion in your state (laws differ) adoption should be considered. She's 12 yrs old, where is the money going to come from to raise this child? Your parents and the father will have to step up if she keeps it. I don't care how mature she is, no 12 yr old is capable of raising a child on their own.
2007-11-28 05:35:28 · answer #6 · answered by Sandy Sandals 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG how could she not notice? That is so young... do your parents know? They can probibly suggest the best course of action. Im not sure if 5months is to late for an abortion.. if that is what you believe in, I know it is a touchy subject for some. I think having the child would be too much for a 12 year old, even if she were to put it up for adoption. I mean shes got school, friends and her whole life to think about.
2007-11-28 05:38:04 · answer #7 · answered by jrzer7 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, these are those bummer situations you hope never happens to you...I'm sorry. Give your sister my regards. I'm not sure the month cut off for an abortion, but that could be one of your options. Or she could just have the baby and give it up for adoption if her and your family isn't ready for that kind of young mommy situation. I would talk to your doctor about your options and if she's physically able to have the baby without medical complications.
2007-11-28 05:25:43 · answer #8 · answered by emerald_wang85 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well go to police if you haven't aleady and get whoever that sick ****** was who did this to her arrested!!
Ask what she wants to do, If she wants to keep it then let her as long as she has a lot of support from others around her coz she's gunna need it whatever she decides to do!!
I can't make up her mind for her it's not my baby and i don't even know her, but you do so help her out. When i was 12 i wouldn't of been able to deal with this without a LOT of support
Good luck =] x
2007-11-28 05:23:58 · answer #9 · answered by baby_x 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
WOW!!!1 Well I would like to say I'm sorry!!!
But I hope that you guys have called the cops and reported it...
But I think that your sister should do what is best for her, nobody else...
she needs to think about her future... ask her "what do you see yourself doing in ten years?
But just be there for her and support her NO MATTER WHAT
Good luck :-)
2007-11-28 06:02:50 · answer #10 · answered by joyfulove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋