How upset would you be if your partner forgot or barely noticed it was your anniversary. Say your 5th thur10th or more anniversary, or does it become just another day!
On a scale of 1 to 10,
1: so what, I'm filing for divorce anyway
&
10: not talking to for a month, or move out kind of pissed off
and please feel free to explain,
THANKS
:-)
2007-11-28 04:53:59 · 14 answers · asked by ~* Garden Empress*~ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not married, but it's been long enough, it's not a great feeling being invisible at times, to put it lightly.
2007-11-28 05:35:13 · update #1
My husband is the one who remembers everything I mean everything the first kiss what I wore on the first,second third dates birthdays anniversaries .Me on the other hand forget what I ate this morning . So these events are not such a big deal to me we have been together I think 30 years and we are still happy . How is your everyday life is he good to you does he make you laugh does he take care of you in every other way ? If he makes up for his forgetfulness in other ways I say get over it just leave little hints around to make impossible for him to forget.
2007-11-28 05:37:02 · answer #1 · answered by minah 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My husband is very good with birthdays, anniversaries and holidays. He reminds me when it's mother's day or something.
Our anniversary is on July 3rd and I have the 4th off from work. I know that my husband and I will not forget our anniversary because we bring it up once in a while and are making specific plans to go camping.
If my husband was forgetful over things like this, I would be upset but my world wouldn't feel like it's going to end. However, sometimes we have to remind people things or let people know what our expectations are and NOT expect them to read our minds.
2007-11-28 05:20:33 · answer #2 · answered by Erica, AKA Stretch 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do believe I would be upset if there was laot of stuff going on and they were dealing with alot on there plate around the time of your anniversary then it could have been a simple reason they forgot or didn't realize the date. Really though without a good reason you have the right to be pissed.
2007-11-28 05:03:46 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hunny, how this, falling body parts, I have to say I get two anniversary presents a year, one for the day we married, and the other is for the day we meet, plus birthday. Even one time I forgot, and he didn't but I made up for it.....We have been together 20 some years...
2007-11-28 05:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by eeyore6838 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For the most part - things like anniversaries are SO important to women. However - it seems that most men don't pay attention to the date. Not all men ignore the date .. but it happens so much .. and lots of women have the same complaint.
Most women are emotion driven .. and they care about such important events. It hurts when their man is oblivious to the day .. and don't remember .. or seem to care.
I honestly think it is a "guy-thing". I also think most guys who do think of the date - does it to please their wives .. which is SO important to the wife .
2007-11-28 05:02:30 · answer #5 · answered by Tara 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I never cared about the date. As long as he never forgets our daughters birthday, he can't forget mine, were born 10 days apart, and when our anniversary rolls around, we'll be sailing anyway. It is after all, only a date.
2007-11-28 05:04:38 · answer #6 · answered by Bridget S 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh i know my girlfriend would probably be mad...or at least shocked if i didnt remember ours lol.
I mean i have a terrible memory so im lucky i remember it at all lol.
But yeah i can understand how it feels to totally forget that special day when the two of you got together (not you specifically, but everyone)
2007-11-28 08:39:49 · answer #7 · answered by The Keeper Of Secrets™ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He hasn't forgotten our anniversary, but after 16 years of marriage he forgot my birthday, and that really hurt.
2007-11-28 15:22:41 · answer #8 · answered by YankeeSouthernMama 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
possibly he's not offended with you and is in basic terms in a undesirable temper over something else, which coincided inclusive of your anniversary. Is there something which would be bothering him? Perhas he's dealing with midlife disaster? quite some adult males have difficulty expressing their thoughts, so i think of which you will possibly desire to easily ask him. with a bit of luck each thing would be large :-)
2016-10-18 07:04:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being that I'm the world's worst(or 2nd) about remembering dates;I can see how it happens.My lady friend knows to give me subtle or not too subtle hints to remind me.It's not that she is "invisible" to me or that I don't care;brain just gets a little overloaded at times.
2007-11-28 05:40:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋