he calls me we still spend time together all though we are not together he said he wants to fall back in love with me what do you think could be going on with him
2007-11-28 04:46:20 · 4 answers · asked by maria p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So many women have the very same problem,the husband
tells the wife that he doesn't love her anymore or i don't think i love you anymore so he moves out of the house. Gives you that last pity f u c k and walks out the door. My husband told me he moved out so our marriage wouldn't get any worse then it was. Funny thing about that though, he forgot to tell me our marriage was bad. Gee wiz i thought we had a good marriage and he loved me. I guess i was out that day when our marriage went bad. He called me every night when he got home from work and he even came over for a little afternoon delight. We still went to all the family things together and vacation with his parents like always. The only thing that changed was him not sleeping in my bed every night and sometimes he did spend the night and i would spend the night with him at his place. He moved back home 2 1/2 years later he fell back in love with me and it was so much better then it ever was before. He moved back on a friday and saturday i was putting some of his clothes back in the drawers. There it was a card hidden in between a pile of his shorts, my heart stopped and i knew what it was. He had been having an affair 8 months prior to leaving me and had just stopped with her. I ask him some many times if he was cheating on me to tell me now so i can deal with it.well he swore on his mothers life his fathers life and even our sons life that he has never cheated on me. Looking back on everything it was right there right in front of me and i ignored it like every other wife does.
A male friend of mine told me this a long time ago, men never leave unless they have someone to take your place and when he told me that he was with a friend of his and he said the same thing.
Don't believe anything your husband says to you,i don't care if he makes love to you like never before. If he isn't sleeping in your bed every single night he is sleeping with someone else.
Get a friend of yours with a car your husband doesn't recognize sit at his work and wait for him to come out. See where he goes and with whom,if i were you i would need to know before i have sex with him again.
2007-11-28 05:41:33 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe he is confused about the relationship that you guys have. Or it can be once he left you that he realized what he is missing. I am sure if the man married you that he truly loves you. He either got scared of marriage or he wasn't sure this is what he wanted to do. You know what you should do is go date again and make it feel like you guys are starting all over again. Trust me it works.
2007-11-28 12:54:17 · answer #2 · answered by Phia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say the other deal fell thru and he is regretting leaving you...proceed cautiously where he is concerned.
2007-11-28 12:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by that judi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny, he is using you, you can't make yourself love someone, love is something you can't control.. Do yourself a favor and distance yourself...
2007-11-28 12:55:23 · answer #4 · answered by eeyore6838 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋