ok theres a guy and he asked me to his house and i want to do stuff but not sex how do i turn him on with out sex be deatiled please! (oral sex is ok) we are both 15
2007-11-28 04:39:59 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
You are too young to make the guys happy or even thinking about it.
COncentrate on doing your schoolwork, getting good grades, doing your chores, staying off drugs, staying in school, finding a babysitting job, helping your parents out with dishes, dinner etc.
Thinking about performing any sex act at your age is ridiculous. I am curious to know how old is this kid as well.
You can find some video games to play or help him with his school work. Bake some chocolate chip cookies, pop popcorn and watch a G rated movie.
Go to the mall and hang out before your curfew... and I hope you have a curfew and some responsibilities at home to keep you busy.
If he is into sports... go to practice with him and then hang out for a hour playing video games or baking your favorite cookies.
Stay away from any sexual contact... and behave yourself.
You are too young to be worried about making a guy happy... he is too young to keep his attn on you for too long anyhow and he will end up breaking your heart.
So save yourself the heartache and embrassing bad rep and find something better to do with your time
2007-11-28 04:55:58 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy Shut Your Mouth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to any of the idiots that say you are too young......you are going to make mistakes in life and no one should try to stop you because you are not going to learn if you never make mistakes.....I'm not saying sex or oral sex is a mistake.....if you really are serious about fooling around with this guy make sure you know that sex and love are two completely different things and that oral sex is a great way to make a guy happy.
2007-11-28 19:51:15 · answer #2 · answered by GH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid the only thing the boy wants is stuff. It's my opinion he's only interested in the sex.
Oral sex is sex by the way.
You're on dangerous ground. Getting the boy aroused without actually having sex is not a good idea. Do you know what he'll do if he doesn't get what he wants? Are you prepared to be assaulted?
Please, Please, Please, wait til you're married to have sex. It is worth waiting for!! Why risk getting pregnant or getting an STD? Why risk the chance of being assaulted?
Why have sex with a boy who's not really interested in who you are as a person? Never ever feel embrassed about waiting to be married to have sex. Be different, stand out from the crowd. Never give in to any pressure to have sex.
2007-11-28 05:18:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh my goodness at 15 I wasn't even thinking about sex. Let alone Oral Sex. Brings books over and study that will turn him on
2007-11-28 04:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by Debbie 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You need to be careful. Teenage boys don't control themselves very well, and if you start doing something and decide half way through you're not sure, you could end up in a situation that you're not ready to be in. You may think he's a great guy, but all guys change once sex is involved in the mix. I think he needs to keep his penis in his pants and you need to respect yourself more than this. Shouldn't just being with you be enough for him? Why do you have to do stuff sexually to make him happy? If he can't be happy with just you, then he needs to get lost!
2007-11-28 05:25:02 · answer #5 · answered by Soon2BMrsB 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
at age 15 ORAL SEX is NOT OKAY not kind of SEX is good at age 15.
if u wanna make him happy he should be happy spending time with u and u should not have to give him sex of any kind.
if u wanna get him off give him a hand job no type of sex
2007-11-28 05:44:54 · answer #6 · answered by blue03neon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oral sex is sex. Sorry to disappoint you...You can get as many diseases from the mouth as the lower regions.
Make yourself happy! You have a whole life in which to find someone who cherishes you and values your person.
Show him how to win at his favorite video game. Study up on his favorite sport....The world has so much more to offer than this..
Good Luck & Bless
2007-11-28 04:44:56 · answer #7 · answered by Wood Smoke ~ Free2Bme! 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
both of you go into the kitchen and prepare some food together....laughter and food is always the best way to get into a man's (boy's) heart.
ENJOY !
p.s. have your best tunes blasting and don't forget to smile smile smile.... you will be beautiful & impossible to resist ~
p.s.s. sex should not be an option unless your willing to have a child and your able to work and afford such a huge responsibility for the next 20 years...... just eat, laugh & kiss is more than enough for the next few years
2007-11-28 04:44:18 · answer #8 · answered by jay 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you want to tease him? Why can't you turn him on by being a nice girl. Respect yourself more. Okay, maybe I'm getting old. I don't know. When I was 15 I wanted respect from guys.
2007-11-28 04:43:47 · answer #9 · answered by Cat 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
no sex but just oral sex... at 15 that will be more than enough to make him happy.
2007-11-28 05:05:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋