MY BOYFRIEND DID NOT COME HOME LASTNIGHT AND I AM PISSED HE TOLD HIS MOM HE WAS GOING TOWE HIS FRIEND IN THAT HAD BROOKE DOWN IN A BOAT.THEN CALLED HIS MOM AND SAID IT WAS TO LATE THEY WERE GONE TO SLEEP AT THE CAMP .WHAT MAKES ME MAD IS HE DID NOT TELL ME ANYTHING ABOUT IT AND HIS TOOTH BRUSH WAS GONE SO HE NEW HE WASNT COMING HOME.HE ALSO DID NOT DO ANYTHING IN THE HOUSE THAT HE WAS SUPPOSED TO AND MISSED 2 DAYS OF WORK.I REALLY WANT TO MOVE OUT AND LEAVE HIM WHAT SOULD I DO.HE DOES NOT HELP ME AT ALL I PAY FOR DAYCARE FOR THE KIDS MY SELF X-MAX PRESENTS MY SELF MY CAR NOTE HE NEVER GIVES ME MONEY FOR ANYTHING I DO IT ALL MY SELF SO I CAN BE BY MY SELF RIGHT
2007-11-28 03:48:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Well, it really doesn't seem like you need any help with this one if you just follow your heart. You may have a great deal of love for this guy, but you deserve someone who is going to love you just as strong in return... and this guy obviously seems to lack the respect that he should have for you if he Really loved you.
It sounds like you have your head on straight, and need a guy who respects that. It doesn't sound like he's doing a whole lot to help your situation, which only adds stress to your everyday life. If you are able to provide for yourself on your own, I would advise trying to show him that you don't need him around, and that you are not going to allow him to disrespect you the way that he has recently.
Life is too short to not enjoy, so don't let this guy get you down. Find someone who will see you for how beautiful you are, and treat you as such. Good luck!
2007-11-30 02:30:25 · answer #1 · answered by kcguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like he does not respect you at all. And i am sorry to tell you this but i am a guy so i should know. He is or has cheated on you. A bloke does not go out with his toothbrush unless he knows he won't be coming home. And if he has kept it a secret then there is another woman and also if he took 2 days off work and you don't know where he was for some or all of that time it is because he wanted an early night but not sleeping and a lie in but not sleeping. These are all signs of a cheat and if he has prepared himself for it then he knows what he is doing and will have done it before. You must leave him. You deserve to be loved, respected, and treated like a lady.Go and meet someone who you deserve.
2007-11-28 12:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by Roger Henderson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
KILL the CAPS. Go to the Family and Relationships section of Yahoo Answers. You are whats considered an "enabler". No one can take advantage of you if you do not allow it.
2007-11-28 11:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by sensible_man 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out and leave him already? Don't do it unless you're 100% sure he did something indecent. Wait for him to come back home and talk to him about it, he should be honest, if he isn't, then you're fuked because you chose to move out/date someone that isn't honest and is financially messed.
2007-11-28 11:52:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a tough one especially when there are kids involved. do you love him? if it is a definate yes then you shouldnt leave him. dont go mad at him otherwise he wont listen. talk to him like adults. Hope everything works out for you both!
2007-11-28 11:52:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear sweet sure equation miss some thing
here it is try to get then sure your man never leave you
love + care +entente = happy couple
2007-11-28 11:55:11 · answer #6 · answered by h m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to this: DUMP THE SOB!!!!!!! Get out of this relationship fast, pick up the pieces and start anew. You are too good for that piece of trash!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-28 11:52:50 · answer #7 · answered by Paulus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, lay off the capitals, second, learn how to spell, are you in third grade or something, and third we don't care about your boyfriend and you are in the wrong category.
2007-11-28 11:51:51 · answer #8 · answered by cmdrbnd007 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
then pack up and leave!! if its your place pack his stuff and change the locks!!
2007-11-28 11:52:53 · answer #9 · answered by stacey p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋