I somehow manage to everyday get at least one friend ticked off every day. I don't do anything and I talk to them but they deny that they are mad, but I knpw my friends and I know they are lying. What is it? Is something wrong with my friendship skills? Plus I am 17 so don't treat me like a child with your answerses. Best answer gets 10 points.
2007-11-28 03:19:04 · 8 answers · asked by heyjesus90 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
there is nothing wrong with ur friendship skills. have you ever once considered that they arent true friends? its possible. and if you dont go that route, then apologize and it should be better. plus thats just all part of high school. trust me i know.
2007-11-28 03:31:27 · answer #1 · answered by Angel of Chaos 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well perhaps there is something that you are doing that you don't even realize. Perhaps your friends aren't saying it becaue they dont' want to hurt your feelings and just shrug it off because that is easier to do then confront you about the issue.
Unless your friends are willing to talk your not going to know what it is you have done to correct the issue. When this happens think about what just occurred was it something you said that got them upset or did. Try to be respectful at all cost. I'm not saying your not because we really cant' identify this issue over a yahoo question. Look for signs after an incident happens. I would talk to your friends and tell them that you care about them and if there is something that you did that hurt them you want to know so that you can either explain yourself, correct the issue or realize your inappropriate behaviour.
Another thing is that perhaps your a little parinode and insecure. I have been this way where i thought someone was mad at me becasue of the way they were acting. However it's turned out many times it wasn't me at all. There were other issues in this persons life that were going on that they did not want to talk about. Sometimes you dont' know everything that is happening in someone elses life.
Take care
2007-11-28 04:02:39 · answer #2 · answered by Violet 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its not you, its them. I do the same thing most days. But at the end of the day its all good. Maybe they have bad friendship skills and need to grow up and stop getting mad at little things.
good luck!!
2007-11-28 03:24:37 · answer #3 · answered by starsz1621 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Woah i do the same thing. i've lost so many friends because of it but, turns out it's really not me and it's just them. so maybe in ur situation they never liked u to begin w/ and are now trying to get that through ur head. or maybe they're just in a bad mood that day. maybe, they have temper/anger problems. who knows? it could be anything! just ask them whats up and if they keep denying it then just don't even talk to them until they talk to you or start acting decent. =)
2007-11-28 03:27:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i wont treat you like a child i hate that too.. im 17 and when somepeople answer my questions i get mad because they answer rudely.. well you could try to talk to your friends and see why they get mad at you tell them that you really want to know so that you can try not to do it in the future!
best advice i can give
2007-11-28 03:23:18 · answer #5 · answered by Keira 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
girl i do the same thing all the time ithink what we do is say somthing wrong and not ralize that we say it.and next time you confront them about it ask them to tell the truth and not lie to you so that you can figure out what you said or did wrong.
2007-11-28 04:08:05 · answer #6 · answered by LeLee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it might not be you, it could be them. . . but if its not, just talk to them, just you and them and ask them wuts going on, try to work it out. .. and im not trying to teat u like a child with this answer, its just that im 12 and its the best i can think of. good luck!!
2007-11-28 03:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by justxbeingxmex0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you arent just being parenoid?Or feeling guilty about something?
2007-11-28 03:26:01 · answer #8 · answered by uptoyou 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋