Im 14. I Have A Boyfriend Of 13 Months, And I Have A Best Friend, But I Dont Really Class Her As A Best Friend.
Anyways. I Am Feeling Really Lonely. I Have Tried Making More Friends And Every Thing But Im Finding It Really Hard.
I Have Had A Hard Childhood. Many Things Have Happened To Me. I.e My Mother Dying, Moving Schools Many Of Times, Huge Family Arguements.
I Used To Go To This Primary School Which I Loved, But When My Dad And Step Mother Had An Arguement It All Went Pearshaped Now Im In High School.
Just Feel Lonely :(
Any Ideas ?
2007-11-28 03:13:03 · 5 answers · asked by lexay_1980 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok dont try too hard to make friends just start conversations with people and see what you guys have in common if you dont look you cant find!!! dont try to be lonely just go out and try!!! thats the best way! i had a hard child hood tooo... im 17 and i switched schools alot!! yep i moved from realative to realative!! my parents almost got a divorce but then they didnt.. i lost some of my best friends from them dying so i can also relate to you loosing your mom.. my friends were like siblings!
2007-11-28 03:21:20 · answer #1 · answered by Keira 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss!! I suspect that you are missing your mother so much and that leads to you feeling lonely. I lost my dad when I was just barely fifteen, and I was a daddy's girl. Talk about feeling like the rug was just pulled out from under you!! Time will help you, but nothing will remove the empty spot in your heart for your mom.But you must go on and do your best to become a person your mother would be proud of. It can be hard to make new friends under the best of circumstances, but with you feeling so down and lonely, you are probably not attracting new people either. I highly recommend that you attend a local church. They all have activities and programs designed for the young people. You may visit several before you find one that has special interests for you, but you could be lucky and like the first one you try. You may need a new best friend too if you do not consider this one a true friend. May God be with you honey!!!!
2007-11-28 15:05:08 · answer #2 · answered by barefootin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel so sorry for you. But that won't do you as much good as a little advice. The best thing to do is get 'into' something positive. Join a club, do volunteer work etc. You will meet and have something in common with other people. Just be nice and pleasant. Never just look to make friends. True friendships begin with common interests. Stay away from the shallow or clickish people.
If you join something like a drama group or debate team or some sport or other you become part of something bigger than yourself. It is the nature of such groups. Try pushing your boundaries into areas you never thought of before. You may be surprised at what you end up enjoying.
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2007-11-28 11:28:26 · answer #3 · answered by Jacob W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear lonely,
Have you tried to get involved in sports or music, sometimes this helps. Do you tell each other everything that has happened in your life. I used to be in that same position that you are in, and i joined in comunity programs and i became friends with lots of people. Good luck!
2007-11-28 13:41:21 · answer #4 · answered by cowgirl07662003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have your friends addresses from the other schools? (to keep in touch..) i think you should "write them...getting things in the mail (expecting things) is a gas! It will cheer you up too...something else? pen pals...there is something about getting mail that seems better than just a phone call...it's something you can keep and read over and over...and collect...(for keepsakes) written mail is something i like to get...i know how you feel...and when i get a letter? Wow! it brightens my day! "Peace!" so, get started! bye!
2007-11-28 11:24:48 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. "Diamond" 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋