kids and he is now 40yrs old next year and im 24yrs old but i nevr fill than he loves me sence we stay together and is just like he dont have eny plan in our relatonship cos evrytime i ask him when we get marrid but he never answer me but i love him so much. you think he will going to marry me or not.
2007-11-28 01:23:18 · 19 answers · asked by borleo23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if he want to merry u he must answer your Q
2007-11-28 01:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by amer83 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Although yo are living in sin, I cannot throw any rocks trust me, but it's not to late to change. As one person stated the "cow and milk" or the cake and eat it to". what i suggest is that you get a headache all the time.
You didn't mention anything about your love life and maybe he has fizzed out. I find there is nothing wrong with your age difference. To protect yourself just tell him you are not in the mood and have a headache, I would suggest you do this for about six weeks.
So he doesn't think you are faking it, get some green pea soup and if he starts giving you a hard time then at like you are sick and throw some of the soup on him, like that girl in the scary movie where her head moves around.
i figure after that long and he's still around the guys loves you and pull him to a church. Do you go to church. You need to take him and that way when you set it up with the preacher for the marriage he won't freak out.
Hope it works out. Take care.
2007-11-29 19:28:47 · answer #2 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! I know u feel depressed when such situation arrive.What i would suggest is calm down think of all those moments u have spent with him.I know every women needs a identity as married and its been long time u have been with him so i'll not say that u should leave and move on....its hard to do so.
Wiat have pateints u never know when what changes and Iam sure he is much matured.look from every angle of life he must be planning for something.
I would suggest is have a chat with him without asking him about his plans of marriage.Speak to him find out whether is he going through something that has made him do so.And best thing to solve any problem on this earth is time,time is the best medicine and solution.
Best of luck and best wishes to u God Bless u....
2007-11-28 09:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by Nineveh D 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No he isn't. Leave him and go back to school, an English class, specifically spelling would be a good idea. This guy has the best of both worlds and will never marry you.
2007-11-28 09:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are only 24 years old, what's the rush to get married ? Wait a little bit longer ! Maybe he isn't ready either !! Talk to each other !!
2007-11-28 09:42:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not going to marry you and he's not going to want kids.
Move on and find another man to love who will be willing to have the same goals as you in life.
2007-11-28 09:47:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has not asked you to marry him yet he may feel like he is too old for you even tho he cares about you he dont think you will stay with him forever cus your 24 and he is 40. he is just there for the time being. that does not mean he does not love you tho. just have a long talk with him
2007-11-28 09:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was engaged and lived with my finace 5 years and had two kids with him!Finally i left him because he was never going to marry me! Later i starting dating again and met a nice man! We got married and had two kids! so im happy with my husband and my ex finace getting in nothing but trouble and never visted our kids!
2007-11-28 18:22:18 · answer #8 · answered by wifeyandmom4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not answering you & if you feel like he doesn't love you, I think it's time you start moving on. Give him an ultimatum, "do you see marriage in our future?". If he doesn't answer you or says no, you got your answer. Don't hang on to someone who won't commit, you deserve much more than that.
2007-11-28 09:28:43 · answer #9 · answered by Cheryl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably sees you as a brainless piece of ***. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? Oh yeah spell check is a great thing. Try using it as well as proper punctuation.
2007-11-28 09:38:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Hon, you deserve the truth!I'm 41, and we (I mean men in general) Love, and crave younger women (to be blunt the vagina is wet, and women our age have drying vagina's) However, with our age comes wisdom, money, and priorities. In other words he'll never marry again (this would make him risk losing the wealth that took decades to build) I hope the truth doesn't hurt
God bless you
2007-11-28 09:31:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋