im getting so sick of it, i mean im know prude, and me and my partner have a great sex life, we have 2 very young children and live in a mid terrace, nearly every nite around 2am, we get woken up by them goin at it, the walls are very thin, we can hear the bed squeaking, the bed bangin against the wall and shes a real screamer, it just goes on and on, it woken my babies up a few times, and i feel like banging on their door to tell them to shut the f**k up with all the racket!! its getting me really down im so tired through the day, but it just takes the p*** when they start waking the kiddies up, how should i tackle this? i know its a pretty embarrasing thing to deal with, but jesus, if i was that girl i'd be so ashamed the next day! u can have great sex with out letting the whole street know surely! we do!
2007-11-27 22:40:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
and please no silly answers!! i dont want to sodding join in! lol
2007-11-27 22:41:54 · update #1
Ed C............ wtf??? :s
2007-11-27 23:04:59 · update #2
i would raise this issue with your local council as this disturbance can be seen as asbo obviously ppl make love but too do it so noisly and especiallywhen its waking up your children i would bang on the wall to let them know u can hear them and then contact your council they will then send a letter telling them to quieten down i hope this helps
2007-11-27 22:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've handled this two different ways. When we were first married the couple next door were like this, and once the whole building was woken up by her screaming and several of the men were going to break down the door because they thought she was being murdered. We learned to simply applaud loudly and that seemed to get the message across. The other was recently and at my daughters apartment where the guy next door tends to bring home drunks and keep her up all night with his "noise". After staying there one night, and being kept up all freaking night long, I wrote him a note including everything he said and well he's been a whole lot more quiet since then. You can also call the cops and/or go to the leasing management.
2007-11-27 22:48:52 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i'm sorry but that is hysterical. When i first lived on my own my roommate and i had neighbors like that. Granted they didn't do it every night and the guy was a minute man, so ya. I guess i would see if you could talk to the cops and ask them if they have any idea of what you can do or if they can get involved. Its hard, but when it starts desturbing your peace its a problem. I guess i would first go over and say something to your neighbors. If they are being that loud then they should not be embarrassed to know that they are being heard and your being annoyed. Tell em to go do it in a different room on the otherside of the house, or to be more creative and do it during the day or somewhere else to spice things up. doesn't sound like they need it spicing up but at least it would be away from the bedroom.
2007-11-27 22:48:03 · answer #3 · answered by *<3_Gizmo* 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You and your buddy can start telling loud jokes about what's "probably" going on in there. If the walls are thin, they'll hear you and be embarrassed maybe. If not, then you can call the police and report a disturbance. Note that it would be a crime to take a gun, kick down their door, and shoot them - this could lead to your being arrested!
2007-11-27 22:47:20 · answer #4 · answered by elohimself 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should politely go around there and tell them they are waking the kids, to be honest it cant go on if its affecting you during the day, just ask them to keep the noise down. Even though it is embarrasing im sure they will understand your reasons and will be quieter in the future.
2007-11-27 22:45:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Play postmans knock at the appropriate times as by the time they get to the door you will have escaped and they will have been turned off
You could also change your mobile ring tone to the same as theirs and set it off as appropriate
Sounds funny but it is a serious option
2007-11-27 22:46:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Im not gonna say join in, there isnt alot u can do maybe ask them round 4 tea n pop some Bromide in his that'll stop him lol sorry im lost i wd tell my neighbours though if thy woke my kids up if i had any, cant b nice but have a quiet word... Gd Luck..
2007-11-27 22:45:48 · answer #7 · answered by Mark A 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is temptation from Satan the Devil that came in within you, because satan is happiest devil and beginning to control you with his power because you don't know how to control yourself. This time you're going alright because youre doing whatis due to you as husband and wife but try to control yourself couple, you might be going the wrong partner. So Pray to God of Israel,Isaac and Jacob.
2007-11-27 23:00:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
record the sound and if you r to embarrasing to show them just let it in the door with a little note say in " keep it low"
or call the police
* you r and adult so take the bull by the horns and go to your neighbors and told them to shut the f*** up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-27 22:47:06 · answer #9 · answered by denise m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could send them a letter if you don't want to talk about it to their face. Or you can get a noise assesment done and if it is proven they are being too loud then someone else will deal with it for you.
2007-11-27 22:45:02 · answer #10 · answered by jacquerof 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋