I am 15 and it was the first ime a boy fingered me, he on the other hand has done it before.
2007-11-27 22:20:45 · 7 answers · asked by Clara 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I pretended to enjoy it, shall i just let him I don't know if I could tell him because he has a HUGE ego...
2007-11-27 22:42:54 · update #1
The thing is I did get 'wet' down below, but still didn't feel anything but pain
2007-11-28 01:08:00 · update #2
You're not alone. Most girls don't like it. I actually hate it and won't let my boyfriend do it. Plus, guys can be too rough and sometimes you have to tell them.
2007-11-28 01:17:33 · answer #1 · answered by ME 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well i have to sat i dis agree with the other answers, i do find this pleasurable. Just tell your partner what feels good, chances are he knows you didn't enjoy it, when were turned on we get 'wet' down below. Next time use a lubricant and tell him to do itr slowly, talk him through what feels good, this might also turn him on, if you start to talk things through now you'll find that you may have a happy sexlife later on :)
2007-11-28 08:08:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
never, never, never fake enjoyment in this kind of situation. If you get in the habit of faking it, then you will never learn what it is you like and your partner will never satisfy you.
This boy sounds like he's inexperienced and doesn't know what he's doing. As the other posters said, what feels good to one woman may not feel good to another. Don't be afraid to speak up when something is hurting you and gently let your partner know what you like.
2007-11-28 08:51:49 · answer #3 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Easy. He had no idea what he was doing. Roughly jabbing your finger into a girl is hardly going to be pleasurable for a girl.
2007-11-28 06:26:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 0⤋
probably inexperienced, even if he has done it before, every woman is different, and every woman finds different things stimulating, that isnt something i find pleasurable, in fact, it hurts every single time, just not my thing, but he probably had no idea what he was doing, and it WAS your first time, it isnt surprising it hurt
2007-11-28 06:41:43 · answer #5 · answered by Mos Am. 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Don`t let him do it. If you don`t enjoy it.
2007-11-29 13:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by lost2day 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's something that boys think girls enjoy, but rarely do they.
2007-11-28 06:31:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋