being PLAYED, emotionally????

Question

for some reason I have a feeling I might be being played, toyed with emotionally, by someone from answers, he is so romantic, knows i like this kind of thing, says all the right things, has even called me, we even live near enough to each other [ 45 miles] to plan a visit, BUT I just don't know, is there any way to be able to tell for sure if this might be true it's just a gut thing, and i'm not even sure if this is true or not,

you know, he is here right now, an hasn't replied so just maybe, my insticts are right! i know he would know what i am saying!

Answer 1

Be careful sweetie!
Coffee only - middle of the day - lots of people around - separate cars

Men know how to charm and they pray on vulnerable women who are lonely and long for love.

Please be careful!

Answer 2

Be careful, there are a lot of jerks out there, but there are some nice folks, too. If you do visit, make sure you have outs.
Meet publicly the first time, then let you instincts do the rest. They are not always right, but 90% of the time, your heart will tell you what to do. If that little warning goes off inside, end it! If not, maybe you make a good friend! Good Luck!

Answer 3

Hey Hiphip, hang on to your heart darlin', reel it back on in.

Gut feelings can be intuition, or they can be fear, and you don't know which it is. it might just be fear, and he might be fine.

A few words of advice:
Do not tell him where you live.
Be sure to meet him in a public place with other people around.
Ask him for his home phone number (as opposed to his work one) and ring him at home in the evening, just to check if there is a wife or girlfriend there.

I sincerely hope that he is who you thought he was and that it is real, but remember, this person is a stranger so be safe and take it carefully and slowly. Pretend you are your own daughter and advise yourself wisely. Lizzie :o)

Answer 4

If he says all the right things at all the right times and it seems to good to be true, then it probably is too good to be true, and he is just toying with you. When you get to know him for real, you'll probably find that he is not the person you thought he was.

I went through the same thing when I was 18.(10 years ago), and I have learned from my mistakes.

You'll learn from yours.

Cheers

Answer 5

Be careful, I believe that there are a lot of true people here but there is many that are not!! I always say go with your gut, your womans intuition will get you through a lot if you will take the time to listen to it!!

Answer 6

If you have a bad feeling, then you are usually right.I talked to some one on myspace for about 6 months from Florida and one day he started talking differently and saying things he had never said before.So I deleted him.Ha,Ha, it was so easy. New people don't need to know where you live so be careful.See, I meet a new friend and you already have me worried about you!

Answer 7

If it seems too good to be true, it usually is. I wouldn't meet anyone unless you had someone you can trust to be with you. NEVER go alone with someone you have never met, until you get to know him and trust him. I hope he is not playing around with you, but I am afraid he could be a wolf. They usually just want one thing, and when they get it, off they go. They have made their conquest and are off to save more damsels in distress. Good luck. I have heard of wonderful relationships being made online, and I hope this is yours. Be careful.

Answer 8

just be VERY carefull in this. You never can tell what someone is REALLY like without meeting them, and thats kinda scary isnt it? Ive heard a few real horror stories on this kind of thing.

Answer 9

Go with your gut feelings, besides meeting people from online is dangerous anyways. You have to be careful.

Answer 10

Run a background check on anyone you are interested in. It might be a guy like me, 76, short and fat. Worse still he may be married.