I dont have family close by....my husband is in the military, and I have a couple of friends, but that's it, and only one of them is a close friend.
So, what can I do?
2007-11-27 15:43:20 · 6 answers · asked by Nicole S 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Talk to wives in your unit about your situation...even though you aren't close to them they will jump on the opportunity to throw you a baby shower to make themselves look good. Or they will show up because its a social invitation and they hardly ever turn those down. At least that's what they are like in my unit. You probably are fortunate enough to be in a unit that doesn't have such superficial wives. I know it sounds really catty but its true. A lot of military wives are like this, and its pathetic. I know, because I'm one of the "outsiders". If you don't want to do that, there is nothing wrong with throwing the shower yourself and just having those few people that matter stop by or just going out for a girls night. It's about what's going to make you happy.
In response to Diane B...you were fortunate enough not to be a part of a unit with wives who would let you cry on their shoulder one minute...and then blab your problems to the entire unit the next. My husband and I haven't had an enjoyable experience being a part of the military and that's why we are getting out. No need to thumbs down me for my opinion...but if it helps you sleep better go for it.
2007-11-27 15:49:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your family isn't close by you say, why don't you plan a trip home and they can arrange for a baby shower while you are there. It would be nice for you to see them while you are pregnant. Also I don't know where Brittany got her infor about military wives, but I was one for almost 30 years and we never acted that way. We did things out of the goodness of our hearts, "not to look good" as she put it. We support one another. If you only have a few close friends, then enjoy those few close friends. Not everyone has a baby shower, although many expect it.
2007-11-27 15:53:00 · answer #2 · answered by Diane B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely get involved with the Family group on the military installation, but don't be afraid to send out perhaps invites or just announcements in the mail, you will be surprised how many people send you warm wishes and gifts for the baby. Make use of what you have at hand, people you barely know will open their hearts to you in the military. the other wives know what it's like. :)
2007-11-27 15:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by Mindy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
are there other military wives pregnant or with kids? perhaps you could invite them along to a little afternoon tea, and maybe get to know them better. or maybe just have a nice night out with your close friends, before the baby comes, kind of your last chance! LOL.
2007-11-27 15:47:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-25 03:47:05 · answer #5 · answered by butkovich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume you are the mother to be here?
If you need the basics, many churches have 'supplies' shops.
Other military wives would probably like to help you out.
Are you near a base where they might have a support group?
Ask your husband who (his buddies) you should contact.
2007-11-27 15:51:54 · answer #6 · answered by Robert S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋