I hate a girl i hang around with?

Question

Ive always been very shy, and recent;y me and my best friend started hanging aorund with a new group of people, but i rely hate one of the girls.Shes very loud, cool and confident. Shes become best friends though now with my best friend, shes very bossy and is with my friend all the time now they dont spend a day apart, i think it staretd with her now liking me becasue she was jelous as she thought i got in the way as i was always with my friend when she wanted 2 be.But shes jsut so rude and mean to me it really upsets me,shes always asking me favours and yet she still thinks she can be rude to me. Heres some examples

She will give are other friends presents while im there and completly ignore me.*Asks mr to model for her with some other girls which im doing her as a favour and yet she expect me to drive them all around town picking others up,get a train to london aswell which is going to cost about £30

And today she we where at college doing some art work and she asked me to do sometihng for her so i did and i did it wqrong and she went crazy and called me and idiot and really imbarresied m infront of the class. And yet 10 minites earlier another girl did the say thing to her by accident aswell and she was just like 'ah dont worry about it'

I no i should have appologized to her but i didnt i was so angry i just walked out the class.

Also shes always going on abuot all these 'conditions' she has wrong her her and it really irrates me its just to get attention, she was she went to the doctors and they told her shes 'anemic' and now she wont stop going on about it, ahh its not like its a big thing, im anemic and im sure alot of other people are its jsut means your iron levels are low.

I Hateeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee Her!

Its not that easy to find new friends though, we only have 1 class and there ony, a few other girls in the class and there not very friendly, and it would be obvious im jsut using them if ive fallen out with my other friends

Answer 1

it's so obvious.
She's using you.
you dont like her and she probbly dont like you.
dump her as a friend. if all the other girls in your classes are mean and rude or just not friendly then dont make friends with them. and dont just immediately drop the girl either just stop hanging out with her as much day by day. and get a few guy friends. and hang out with them more and more each day. soon she'll be out of your friendship life.

good luck on whatever you choose to do!
:)


btw...how much is £30 in the U.S.?
just wondering!!
:)

Answer 2

The creative answer:
Steal the attention from her. If she's ovioubsly just one of those people who needs attention ,having the spotlight off her should tick her off enough to leave your group or break into smaller groups of people who might actually enjoy her spotlight more. Plus you always have your bff on your side. So the next time she's mean to you play the victim and say why are you always so rude to me why don't you ever give me a brake. I'm not your slave.yadda yadda. Now the spot lights on you. Just hope you can handle that.

Or the mother's answer:
Just ignore her.

Answer 3

I would suggest you ignore her and don't do her any favours. She's not your friend and you don't owe her anything. If your friend wants to spend all her time with the girl, let her do so. She makes her own choices. If she misses you, she will contact you. If she thinks you have a 'problem' because you don't wish to hang around her and 'b*tch' lady then tell her that you don't like her attitude and the way she treats you so you've decided the best way to solve your problem is to be on your own. If your friend has a problem with that then let her deal with it on her own.

Oh..and if Anyone asks you to perform taxi service in the future, gather gas money first from all of them before you drive.

Good luck!

Answer 4

I have the exact same problem, with this disturbed child in my class. She is loud and fat, arrogant, refuses to work with anybody, rude, pushy, bossy, controversial, and just plain mean. No one in class likes her, and since I happened to move to that school about 4 months ago, she decided to saddle herself with me. The best technique I use is not to lose my temper, but think: If you KNOW you have better manners, and a better general personality, then think about your "friend's" future...and your future. So I wouldn't worry blowing up at your friend. Just know inside you are the better person. Also, don't let her boss you around. Assert your independence. If she calls you an idiot, like today, don't bother calling her an idiot back. Let these small, trivial things slide over your head. Does this girl think that arrogant talking is going to break you down? Prove her wrong! Tell yourself that YOU are better, that YOU will prove it to her!

Good luck!
Don't let this get to ya. :]

Answer 5

you know what girl stop doing stuff for her tell her to do it your self causenow she thinks she has control over you. make a new posey BE A LEADER NOT A FOLOWER you should do the same to her you should get all the good peaple cristmas gifs but not her. and you know how she embareses u well do the same to her ex:when she ask u to do something say out loud ARE YOU THAT LAZY TO GET UP AND GET IT YOUR SELF and tell her of like say u are not the boss of me. i know you said u werte shy but u relly need to stand up for your self girl. good luck!!! my sister had a mean girl picing on her but my sister is so shy she let thst girl walke all over her but not any more cause my sister uesd my agdveic. and i tould her off and im 11 and she is 13 word can make a differents plz try it !!! u r ther 4 school any way u do not have to force your self to hang out with thoes mean girls.

Answer 6

Just stay away from her if she's that kind of person
she asks you for favors that are making you sad( next time say no and walk away)

You did the right thing not apologizing to her.
If you did she would do more stuff like that to you ( you have to fight back if can and want to)I*f you don't want to fight back tel the teacher if not going to feel embarrassed...

Answer 7

well u should be confident and don't listen to what they tell u to do. they'll think of u as a "slave". why won't u ignore her and hang out with the other friend u don't like and make ur best friend jealous and feel what you've gone through

Answer 8

Find new friends...if your best friend is true to you, she'll follow your lead, as she will soon see what a betch this other girl is.

Answer 9

I don't see your "Problem" here... If you can't tell her to "get lost"- who's to blame if she upsets you??! Complaining about her is NOT going to make her "go away..." -& whining to US here isn't gonna help you out any- either. Certainly you must have OTHER issues to worry about... Cut this low-life out of YOUR Life- & get ON with it !!! :)

Answer 10

stop doing things for her! the more attention you give her the more nasty she'll be. if you ignore her she'll probably get out of your way. good luck!