Can you control your temper?

Question

I mean do you sometimes just feel like hitting something sometimes or are you the cool dude who just takes deep breathes in and stares the situation in the face and smiles..
dont lie now cause i made the second guy look good, just say if your a bit tempermental and in which situations??

Answer 1

Yes, I can.

Answer 2

It totally depends on the situation as well as my mood during it. My temper is shortened when it comes to children and elderly. I seem to take up often for the underdog too. If I do reach that point where I loose my temper, I can be a real a*s, hot head, b*tch, or whatever name you prefer, admittedly. Still, I feel basically if you want to argue and carry on its your problem and I usually refrain from it past a few comments as I see it pointless and I don't think we all have to agree. I think its ok for two people to feel opposite, and I don't need to change minds to justify my own.

For other things, past the above listed, I usually have control more so. I tend to be subtle or simular as a first response. Not to much is rewarded, gained, or won from anger. However I don't have much problem standing up for a defense. I do NOT hit things in any case. I think thats how we handle things when younger but when we get older I think we more see it looks rather immature and solves very little.

But the answer is yes. I have a temper for some things and no I don't always have it under control. I can also be very forward at times. Othertimes I keep to myself and don't say much at all. As I said it depends on the situation and topic and how strong I feel on it or how weakened I might see the other side........etc.

AND........sometimes, I am just a cranky ole ***** when I should sit alone and be quiet. Othertimes I am sweet and loving. Stress, lack of sleep, and things like that I'd say are my culprits or triggers for unnecessary esculated whinning I call it.

You could safely say I am the nicest, most caring, will do anything for you type person but I can also be the biggest grumpy ***** too. By the way I am a Libra......definate scales. I go both ways......sometimes to fast.

I like myself better nice!!!

Answer 3

Are you kidding? I give myself total permission to fall apart at the slightest thing, like burnt beans or a DH who eats before he comes home after I slaved all day cooking a great meal.....,,,,,,but when a disaster really happens, I am wide awake and in control.....I know when to hold em and when to fold em....but I never use tears to get my way...never have....well maybe once,,,,would you believe twice? How about three times?

Answer 4

No...my body shivers and my voice trembles and water comes into my eyes if someone annoys me or scares me. But I turn away from it and walk away with my head held high... because I suppose, I am a pacifist at heart and I hate confrontations anyway. Maybe I am a consensus objector (in otherwords a coward!)

Answer 5

Most of the time

Answer 6

Well, wouldnt that depend on the situation. Yes, if i havent taken my Zoloft i get a bad temper

Answer 7

I have a bad temper and do wish to hit things but I usually can control it. My job makes me lose my temper occasionally.

Answer 8

It depends a lot on the situation. But if I screw up in soccer, I'll be pissed the rest of the practice and the rest of the day. I dunno, sometimes I have a really bad temper, and if I do, I go take it of the soccer field and knock a few people over, so that makes me feel better. I dunno what I'd do without soccer!

Answer 9

at times i have a very hard time keeping my temper...i usually just walk away before i do or say something i shouldn't....go hit a wall or something....

sometimes though i amaze myself and can actually keep my cool...depends on what time of the month i'm thinkin'... ;)

Answer 10

Most of the time.

Answer 11

Im the one that smiles while counting backwards from 100 in my head.