say if a person just wants to be obscure, and choose the people he associates with......and he doesnt want to mix with other cultures, just what hes familiar with. own ethics, own race etc.
is this so wrong if your not doing any harm to anyone?- and how do you accomplish this? and what do you do if the people you dont want anything to do with, intrude in your life?
2007-11-27 08:00:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
im french national, but my heritage is irish, norwegian and english.......so obvously what id like is just to operate within this world...people of the same backgrounds, ilk, interest etc.
but the world is so diverse now, alot of people, so howd you do it?
2007-11-27 08:03:36 · update #1
You make your choices and STAND by them..This is what you decide and there will be people that will try to convince you to do other things.I won't try to change your mind, but you could be missing out on some really good relationships and education ,I have many friends and they come from all over and many cultures ,for me this is my life and NOTHING OR NO ONE will change me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-27 08:08:21 · answer #1 · answered by sirmrmagic 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Thats a good question.
I guess it would just be up to the person at that moment.
Its almost impossible to accomplish that and even if someone could do that, there would be a big part of their life that would consist of avoiding other cultures and ethics.
2007-11-27 16:08:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? I'm just going to answer your question. People intrude in other people's life either because they want something from them, they like them, or they are just a curious person. Like that noesy next door neightbor. Also people are natural curious creatures. If you want to get away from them tell them you do not appreciate them intruding into your life and that you will go to the courts if they do not stop.
2007-11-27 16:06:16 · answer #3 · answered by Iris's Lover aka Garrett O. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they insist on intruding, I'm a master at ignoring them, they then tend to get bored and wander off to bug someone else. After they've told everyone I'm a *itch or similar stuffs. I listened to my elders and try to be the duck who lets water role off of it's back. With varying success.
I suppose they always "think' they know better, and in their tiny brains, believe that they are just trying to help.
I've always been known to keep to myself, yet if cornered or railed at , I am not unknown for my sudden outburst. Do not try the patients of those who are calm and patient.
2007-11-27 16:08:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fat chance you can pull that one off. You work with other races, faiths, on a daily base; so how are you not going to make friends out side your base group? Your a bigot; and the worse type because you fool your self into thinking it is all right.
2007-11-27 16:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by zipper 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's tough; I know. What you are supposed to do is shoot one of them, but ONLY cripple him; and the others will go into some kind of feeding frenzy on him. During their haste, just leave out the back exit. Good luck. Oh yeah, try NOT to leave a scent . . . If you can. Can you?
2007-11-27 16:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you do not have to be involved with anyone who makes you feel uncomfortable and you can choose your own friends. we all do.equally so ,you can choose who not to be friendly with.
there is nothing wrong but you may end up feeling lonely if you do that.
i have friends from lots of different backgrounds and would be quite isolated if i only spoke to people from my own culture.
sometimes it can be scarey meeting new people but there are many nice people out there who only want to be friends and have a good life
2007-11-27 16:05:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,if I do not want people intruding in my life then I stay away from them.
2007-11-27 16:03:42 · answer #8 · answered by Ollie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Interesting twist! I thought you were dying of loneliness!
2007-11-27 17:04:33 · answer #9 · answered by hindisikhnewaalaa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People should mind their own business, no matter what their excuse is
2007-11-27 16:03:30 · answer #10 · answered by ppkoo7 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋