2007-11-27 07:08:59 · 26 answers · asked by lil1 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
maybe i dont know..thats not why i had mine
2007-11-27 07:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by bellababi44 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is true and it is done out of stupiduty. Alot of woman think that having there husbands or BF's kid will make the relationship stronger. Realizing after the fact that if the relationship is on the rocks that a baby make's it even worse
not better. Why do you think you see so many single parents today look at statistics and 60% of all divorces have children involved either very young or teenage years because the parents even though hated each other stayed together for the kids.
They do it out of being ignored or feeling alone and think a baby will make everything better. It is the smart woman that know that doing this is just stupid and will not help anything.
2007-11-27 15:17:37 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If they love the child and do everything in the child's best interest then it's ok. but if it's just to have a "show piece" it's not.
Every one is programmed to reproduce. Many people find that they feel like something is missing if they don't have children.
Women over 40 especially feel this because they will go into menepaus soon. Notice women over 40 you can't have any more children get small dogs?
It's a little baby that never grows up and will always need them
2007-11-27 15:14:10 · answer #3 · answered by offthewall76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not saying no but most people that have children is for unconditional love. If you are bored having a baby takes a life time commitment you will not be bored nor can you put the child back when he cries, or is lonely or hungry
2007-11-27 15:12:54 · answer #4 · answered by MrsMagee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Extremely so, yes. That is sometimes the case and it doesn't work out because a child cannot be owned. Children need to be loved unconditionally (which is difficult) and taught to fly. Let them know where the nest was and hope it still is there if they need it but they are not born to give our lives meaning or importance. Children are a result of life longing for itself.
(Kahlil Gibran)
2007-11-27 15:34:56 · answer #5 · answered by Dovey 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It gives them purpose in their life. It is hard to be bored when you have a purpose/meaning in your life. So maybe it is true that people have children because they are bored.
2007-11-27 15:11:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, some people believe that a child will fill a void but come to find out that the problem is still there. The issue is within themselves and cannot be solved externally (i.e. having a baby).
2007-11-27 15:12:38 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they do they are sure going to regret it. I can say from personal experience that once you have kids your life as you know it stops. It's not that it is a bad thing....it is just different. Your life becomes their life, their wants and their needs. The needs of you, the parent, come in last
2007-11-27 15:14:13 · answer #8 · answered by hockeymom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people can do any number of things for any number of reasons, its possible, an probable that people have had children because they are bored with life. its impossible to call any one out on it tho, as we cent see inside the heart â¥
2007-11-27 15:13:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they do sadly and there are other ridiculous reasons people have kids; they have them as trophies to show off to others in their clique, they have because of peer pressure, family pressure, the biological clock ticking or because they don't want to grow old alone, etc. etc.
2007-11-27 15:15:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats why most people have children... (ignoring the "accident" factor)...
They wouldn't phrase it that way; but the same goes for relationships; people don't want to be alone when they get older...
Thats not everyone; but probably most...
2007-11-27 15:24:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋