Girls please help me =[ monthly stuff?
Heyy, Im 13 and my lower belly keeps hurting and also my back and i get headaches, this has all beeen happening for like 3 days now. i have not got my period yet, so could thid be a sign of it. Please help i am gettin relli worried over it as i dont want it to start, And i cant talk to mum as i dont live with her, and i go to a boarding school, and the school nurse is horrid. Me and my mum dont talk and im in a dorm with people who are 5 years onlder than me and encourage me to smoke so i dont want to talk to them about it.
PLEASE HELP! I'm relli upset
2007-11-27 05:42:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
i do not often go home , i go home about twice a year and the next time im going bacck is in may
2007-11-27 06:19:20 · update #1
It sounds to me that womanhood is going to begin soon for you. My concern is that you have no one to talk to. Is there an older sibling, aunt, grandmother, female family friend that you can speak too? You are probably just afraid and really need a woman to help. Is there any older female at your boarding school? I feel so sad that a young lady like yourself isn't with her parent(s). I know you are scared, but we all go through it and you are totally normal. There is nothing you can do to stop changing into a woman and I know that you would be absolutely fine if you just had an older female to talk to. Once your fear is gone, you will go on and just think of your period being an inconvenience, but not scary. Good luck honey.
2007-11-27 06:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I started i really wanted it not ot be happening but there's no choice in the matter
Im not sure of how it works in your school, whether each girl brings enough sanitary product with them each term or whether you can get them from school but you need to get some. I suggest you simply go to the nurse and say you have started your periods and ask for some pads to see you through until you go home. Then you will have them ready if you start soon. Once you get home mention it to your mum and buy some pads/tampons (enough for the next term at school)
Do you not have any friends you can chat too, dont get involved with the stupid onces who want you to smoke.
It will work out fine , good luck xxx
2007-11-27 14:06:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pain in the lower belly and back, headaches, yep, those are the signs. you'll be getting your period very soon. You said it's been going on for 3 days, so I'd estimate it as starting in the next 2-3 days.
You may have to go visit the horrid nurse. Sorry.
2007-11-27 14:27:35 · answer #3 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes those are definitely signs your period is coming. It will start whether you want it to or not. Welcome to womanhood. If you need supplies you will have to tell someone. There has to be a friend or somebody you can talk to this about. Its nothing to worry about, its a perfectly normal part of being a girl.
2007-11-27 13:51:25 · answer #4 · answered by *Cara* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry your upset
yes these are signs of periods
but everyone goes through them
you must have some friends at the school
your age or a year older you can talk to
you need the supplies.
tampons/pads/midol or something
im me on sammipenn on yahoo messneger if you need anymore help
2007-11-27 14:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah..these are signs of it starting.
2007-11-27 13:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋