2007-11-27 05:18:18 · 7 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
When I was trying to concieve I always found myself tyring to get in all these positions that I thought would help sperm flow the right direction. It was so stupid that I actually put that much thought into it, rather than just loving every minute of sex. So I realized one day that I would just go back to enjoying sex instead of TTC. So while having sex the last thing on my mind was making a baby, we went back to how we were normally having sex, which was not like a planned time of day, or position. It was any time, anywhere, any position. And it actually made me enjoy sex a lot more, and we ended up concieving and I wasnt thinking about it. Hope that makes sense. Good Luck.
2007-11-27 05:25:59 · answer #1 · answered by *~* Sexy Mama *~* 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Forget all about the calender and the ovulation prediction kits, get out the candles, wine, soft music and fancy lingerie, start early and stay up late. Enjoy the night and who knows maybe next month you will have a "positive"surprise
Good Luck and much baby dust
2007-11-27 13:45:16 · answer #2 · answered by A***n G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break! Let your body and mind relax for a little bit. when you are ready to start having sex again, communicate with your significant other, try to make sex romantic, light candles, have fondue and pretzles, try a new place/position, make it about you and your significant other and not about trying to have a baby.
If its always about trying to have a baby, it becomes a chore and is unenjoyable and will put stress on you which may cause it to be harder for your to concieve.
Relax and have fun again!
2007-11-27 13:31:02 · answer #3 · answered by PUREfect Your Skin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL---- Take a break and forget about having sex just to get pregnant and try to enjoy just being close to your partner and having sex just for the emotional closeness. You may even surprise yourself and like it since you will be taking the stress of trying to get pregnant away and just enjoying your partner.... Good luck....
2007-11-27 13:37:17 · answer #4 · answered by Karlee bug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're stressing and wearing yourself out. Take a month off- I'm sure it'll do you some good (especially with the added holiday stress)...and, you know what they say "as soon as you stop trying, you get that BFP" lol
2007-11-27 13:30:09 · answer #5 · answered by terasa425 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I no how you feel, I am still trying after 4years for #1 and sometimes sex just don't make me feel good anymore
2007-11-27 13:28:55 · answer #6 · answered by Mom of 2 w/ PCOS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a break and go back at it. don't lose faith/hope...***BABY DUST***
2007-11-27 13:22:34 · answer #7 · answered by Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄ƷAℓεx & Aаяöи have my ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋