I am a white girl dating an indian guy. I own a saree but I have yet to wear it in front of other indians. My main concern is that I dont want to disrespect anyone....so are indians flattered by other cultures wearing sarees or is it disrespectful ?
2007-11-27 04:52:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
alright, so what if we are married? also we are planning to move to India in about 5 years.
2007-11-27 05:21:22 · update #1
his culture will definitely be a part of me and i am open to anything.
2007-11-27 05:22:17 · update #2
its not at all offensive.your intensions are very clear,then why to take that kind of tensions at all.even i feel gud that you are trying your best to adapt a new culture.if you people mind when we wear your dresses?no na then its ok. just go for it.
2007-11-28 22:27:08 · answer #1 · answered by katu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have Indian friends, they said it's somewhat odd, but not to the point of being offensive. But it depends, not everyone thinks the same way. Some may see it as putting down their culture, and some may be flattered.
2007-11-27 13:03:47 · answer #2 · answered by Addikt 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it just depends on the way you act. If you treat them with respect, and show that you are wearing it out of respect to their culture and to your boyfriend I don't think that they will find it offensive. I think maybe you should discuss this with your boyfriend as well, get his ideas on it. This is his heritage and he knows best what is acceptable and what isn't. Are you close with his mother? This is an excellent question to ask her as well. My cousins are Muslim (I know it's not the same as Indian, but I have known many Indians in my life too) and both those cultures are so warm and welcoming, they appreciate questions you may have and an interest in who they are. If you don't feel comfortable at first, wear nice cloths and talk with a few of the women. I think you'll find you will soon be comfortable enough to ask one of them.
2007-11-27 13:01:30 · answer #3 · answered by Dodger 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If other people will see this as disrespectful or be flattered by it really depends on the individual. If its his family and friends that you are worried about you should really talk to your boyfriend and reveal your concerns to him. He will be able to tell you what he thinks and you can make a decision from there.
2007-11-27 13:15:16 · answer #4 · answered by fabyonis 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it were an exclusive event and everyone else was wearing their saree, then maybe you could do it (like for a dinner). But in all honesty, you are white, don't pose as Indian because it may be offensive.
You'd be best to dress up in your best looking clothes, and wear them with confidence.
2007-11-27 12:57:51 · answer #5 · answered by miss_j 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
It can go both ways.. I think it would be really nice of you to go on a date with the indian clothes on. :) Honestly. Other people can get ticked off.. That's their problem. If you're wearing it to make your guy happy. Then so be it!!
2007-11-27 13:05:19 · answer #6 · answered by Angela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your boyfriend about it. If i had an Indian gf and she came round to my parent's house wearing a beefeater costume, we'd find it amusing, but not offensive. :)
2007-11-27 13:11:24 · answer #7 · answered by BotsMaster 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
itll go down well i wore one to my m8s wedding i know im a guy yes but i still wore it and they all thought it was a bit of fun. dont worry bout it jus wear it.
2007-11-27 13:06:46 · answer #8 · answered by bilfy 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Ask your bf. After all it is his friends and family that would be honored or insulted.
2007-11-27 13:01:36 · answer #9 · answered by Tim C 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Very respectful! It shows that you respect and cherish their culture along with with them!
I think it's a great jester!:-)
2007-11-27 13:01:48 · answer #10 · answered by fabfair94 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋