While you were pregnant did u hate...?

Question

your childs father? I dont know if its hormones or what but right now I can't stand the father of my baby! He didn't really do anything but over the last week or so it seems like I hate him more and more. Im not even speaking to him rite now and he has no clue why and neither do I. I just really hate him rite now! Is this a normal thing when you pregnant? My patience is so low its unbelievable. I feel like if someone breathes too hard i might strangle them! Im only 5 weeks along and I feel like I need to be medicated before I kill someone. Is this normal?

Answer 1

I was soooo moody. I fought with him over nothing. I felt crappy and I think I blamed him for it. I think because I had my head in the toilet, couldnt sleep, peed all the time, and he was fine. It annoyed the hell out of me. I got over it. Once I hit my second trimester things settled down. Its normal (I guess) but it feels horrible.

Answer 2

wow hate is a strong word, I never hated my husband, but found myself more angry at things, because of the more hormones in my body and the changing effectes because of the baby.

You will have bad mood swings, at people and you will have emotionally break downs somedays. Crying alot is my worst case in pregnancy. If you have alot of stress, this also increases you risk of being angry and emotionally. Try to calm down, and think before you say anything.

Its hard for the babys father too, as hes probably wondering where his gf or wife have gone, its like another person.

I would say this passes in the second trimester, its passed for me. Im 18 weeks now, and im feeling like I own my body again now, as my placenta has grown and is taking the extra hormones from my body and giving them to the baby. Once you reach that stage you'll feel better.

Good luck and congrats.

Answer 3

yes, it is normal and you will have ups and downs through out your pregnancy! The crazy really comes out in you while you are preggers but just give him fair warning so he will know how to handle it. You don't want him leaving you especially now so just tell him that you are going to be a major B sometimes and it has nothing to do with him.

Last week i felt the same way, i could not stand to see my husband and when he was not around me did not want to hear his voice on the phone. I got pissed when he text messaged me. The poor man took so much abuse in one day when he did nothing wrong. I eventually sent him an email explaining to him that it is not him, i was just having a bad day and i gained five lbs which topped it off, that that night when he got home from work he had a dozen roses for me. It made my week i want him around and just love him right now. I'm sure the next time i step on the scale he will catch the wrath! Just laugh at yourself and hopefully your man can to!

Answer 4

Normal, yeah! After the first trimester it should ease up some, but there are times even now at 7 and a half months that I wish he would go away and come back after the baby is born! You should talk to your doc, but I really think it is normal, maybe not for the majority of women, but for some of us, the hormones make us ......crazier! LOL! Good Luck!!

Answer 5

Hate isn't the right word, but I do get irritated with my husband (and other people) often. This didn't start until later for me - in the beginning I was so sick all I could do was lie on the couch and sleep. Now I find myself getting mad over the stupidest things. Last week I almost had a meltdown because we'd run out of cheddar cheese. It happens. :) Good luck to you and congrats!

Answer 6

I'm not with the father of my son but I did hate him and my hate grew even more the futher I got along. And to this day I still really really hate him and have no use for him what so ever BUT We do have a good relationship for my son and only my son. Other than that I could careless if I ever saw him again. I know how you feel.

Answer 7

Not usually. Maybe you have some anger deep down for getting pregnant. You should definitely tell your doctor about it.

I know most women get completely annoyed with the babys father and other relatives during pregnancy but since your only 5 weeks I think it's way too early. But maybe not...

Answer 8

You are bound to feel extra sensitive emotionally and possibly extra irritable in the early stages of pregnancy because of the extreme amounts of hormones flowing through you right now. Try to remember that despite the fact that his very existence is driving you crazy right now that you love him and that you are going to need his support as your pregnancy progresses. Have a very open conversation with him about how you are feeling and tell him, "I know that sometimes I seem irrational right now, and that I'm always angry with you. Please understand that I don't mean it personally and that I am trying to cope with some really wierd physical stuff right now that even I don't understand."

Good luck!

Answer 9

It's hormonal definitely. sometimes one is a lot more sensitive when pregnant...and it feels like everything is getting on your last nerve. This is the time to really be gentle with yourself. I'd be very wary of taking medications right now because of how it might affect the baby...but you might want to talk to your ob-gyn and see if they have any suggestions.

Answer 10

My sister in law kicked her husband out with both pregnancies and never had anything to do with him until just before her baby was born or just after. She couldnt stand to be near him she actually broke his nose with the second one! Another friend of mine got a second job in the evening and weekends just to have an excuse to be away from her boyfriend because she felt so irrational around him. I never experienced it myself but definitely witnessed it and I think it is normal. Good luck!