My family recently got a new younger stepbrother and since he's afraid of the dark and lightning, whenever a bad storm comes along he always goes to my sister's room and she lets him sleep in her bed. The odd thing is he's almost 12 and she's only 3 years older than him. One time, I went to wake them up and found them both sleeping nude. I know my sister is starting to be very interested in guys at her age, and a few times I heard her complimenting my stepbrother that he was very handsome and cute. I don't know if they are just innocent with him simply being scared of being alone on stormy nights, but if not, I don't want things to go a bit too far the next time my sister invites him in her bed. Confused and would like any advice or help. Thanks a lot.
2007-11-27 03:17:58 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I listened through the door one night, and I heard my sister ask him to undress and then it sounded like she was making love to the boy. I guess its too late because they've actually gone too far already.
2007-11-28 02:49:49 · update #1
don't talk to her about it untill you have proof. this could cause a massive falling out.. sound like they are doing something though, but maybe if they where they would be more discreat
2007-11-27 03:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by eastendboy 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
There is nothing innocent about a boy and a girl sleeping in a bed together in the nude. I would reccomend talking to your sister because she is older and of course she is closer. You need to hit this head on and let your Sister know that this is wrong. The major problem you have is the age of the two. She is probably going to start experimenting pretty soon and there is not much you can do to stop it but this boy is only 12 years old. You need to protect him as much as possbile. The difference between 15 and 12 is only 3 years but that is a huge difference when you are 12. Keep in mind that this boy is just as curious as she is and he will try anything she will allow. You need to tell her that it is up to her to tell him no and to set an example of how there relationship will and will not be. She might have already lead him on too much so you need to act quick. She might even have to sit down with him and explain the situation. He won't understand but he will get the point. Also keep in mind that if they hook up it is going to be very awkward when they are a little older. They might be having fun now but when they get into a fight or "break up" it will be weird because they live together. If your sister does not respond to your talk tell her you are going to tell your parents. That should make her listen. Telling your parents is not the wrong thing to do in this situation. You are trying to protect them not rat on them.
2007-11-27 03:26:52 · answer #2 · answered by chris03711 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
She's 15 sleeping nude with a 12 year old boy. What you need is some T^4Y - some "Time To Talk To You" It's not innocent. But then tell your parents; have them deal with it.
2007-11-27 03:54:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Separate rooms NOW. Why in the world do you think they are sleeping nude? This 12 year old looks forward to bad storm nights. He's not afriad. Someone needs to have a talk with that 15 year old, too.
2007-11-27 03:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
It probably is innocent, but especiall since your sister is about 15, she has to be going into if not already in puberty. Why haven't your parents done/said anything yet? It's kind of like when you are a little kid, hugs and kisses and touching are not sexual to you yet. Babies and little kids bathe with parents and siblings, but it is beyond weird to think of a teenager doing that, and I think this is approaching that same line. If something confusing or inappropriate hasn't happened yet, it will very very soon. You need to talk to mom or dad and get them to draw some boundaries.
2007-11-27 03:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by Heidi B 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she is 3 years older the the boy, then she is 15 and sexually matured. The boy being 12 is also ready for sex. You found them naked together in bed, why is that. I thing they are sexually active together and that needs to stop immediately. At their age they should not be allowed sleeping together.
2007-11-27 03:26:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like they are already going for it. Next step is to explain the stigma between brother and sister, (step or not) and start "the" talk. Mostly, a lock on the sisters door would help.
2007-11-27 03:39:23 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you sister is 15 and he's 12 then she is abusing a minor and can get into trouble. I would have a talk with your sister first and then tell you parents what you have seen going on.
2007-11-27 03:40:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is serious and you need to separate them. The damage is probably already done but still u must make efforts and tell your parents about the issue.
They were already nude!!! Strange and you are matured enough to understand what they might have done in this condition.
2007-11-27 04:19:34 · answer #9 · answered by AB2874 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Even tho I know that you don't want to talk to your parents about this but I think it is the best for everyone. It will be better to get it out in the open before something happens that could hurt one or both of this.
2007-11-27 03:24:03 · answer #10 · answered by Dallas O 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the first thing that you need to do is sit down with both your sister and stepbrother along with your parents. its not normal for them to be sleeping nude together. your parents need to know.
2007-11-27 04:27:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋