i think im convinced!
2007-11-27 02:48:54 · 17 answers · asked by New York Chic 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
well, he's told me it's not about the sex. that he cares more about the emotional connection over the physical. i don't know. he thinks i'm some great lover when we haven't even technically done it yet. it's really hard to explain. but, it feels like we've done more without the actually doing part. lol. this makes no sense. i'm worried about it though. i know he really likes that thing. it's like he already has expectations of how it's going to play out which is kinda both our own fault. i don't regret it. i just hope i meet his expectations.
2007-11-27 05:25:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Remember, that whatever the "one thing" that guys want only becomes a reality is when you girls give it away like cookies. Don't always blame the guys because it is a matter of supply and demand. As long as you all cheerfully provide the supply, the demands are going to get more frequent without any emotional impact on the male other then to say "I love you babe", while he is thinking I wonder if her sister or her girlfriend puts out. If you would all demand to be treated with courtesy, respect and caring, instead of being regarded as a "thing" You might be surprised at how different the male responds.
2007-11-27 04:03:27 · answer #2 · answered by Alfie333 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont trip about those dude..
Look truth is: Boys love that one thing, and men with women already in there lives like a wife or long term girlfriend love that one thing too.
But a Single Man wants more than just that one thing. and I said Single MAN not boy! We want the whole package.. everyone wants the whole package.. the total package. But theres no such thing.. So we start to hunt for what matters most. narrowing it down to what we would go for and what we will not.
What you have to do is Pray first to God to send you the love of your life and wait on him. while waiting on him do some things. focus on your come up in education, and if you dont go to school and have a job.. focus on promotions.. Go out and just have fun..
Look I may not have said things you like to hear.. but I do know from personal experiences.. Every NO brings you closer to a YES!..
Even if your the one saying NO! eventually you will say YES to the right Brotha!
God Bless Sista and I know yo new found man will be blessed too.. cause if He only knew what we know no on yahoo he will say she's a keepa!
2007-11-27 03:02:26 · answer #3 · answered by ☻Jay ™☻ 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I want alot of different things that boil down to one thing....A good decent woman.
Finding a good decent woman is hard because there are so many qualities that it calls for. So many women today are not women that I would call a "lady".
2007-11-27 05:43:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think it depends at what point of thier lives they are in...some guys just want some as5, and some really want to get to know u and see what you're about. but it all leads to that "one" thing anyway. lol..it's what makes the world go round...lol..
2007-11-27 03:24:03 · answer #5 · answered by Fabe 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
ahh, I was gonna come at this one hard.. but the Big Sexy Santa over here beat me to the punch.. I can't even do it now.. well said Santa, u get a cookie!
2007-11-27 03:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by .sincerious. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, that one thing is nice, believe me, ummm really nice lol but it's great when you find someone that can give you more than that too.
2007-11-27 05:20:20 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Big Bear's Girl♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two things. T and A.
2007-11-27 02:53:18 · answer #8 · answered by ross x 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
3 things on rotation.
2007-11-27 02:54:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, we all want the remote control and a beer.
2007-11-27 06:13:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋