how is marriage going to be because i always fought with my bf?

Answer 1

like hell

Answer 2

There are difference of opinions in all relations. Nothing is happily ever after. You need to analyze your situation and learn few lessons from it. Think why you fought and how can you make it less for better. Marriage is more responsibility and work than just an affair. Tell yourself to be more mature and try to see both sides of the coin. Everything will get better with time and experience. Good luck!

Answer 3

What? You think it's going to get better?

The marriage ceremony isn't the finish line. It's just the beginning of your relationship. After all, dating is easy. If you're fighting now, how do you think it's going to be when money is tight, the transmission went out on the car, the kids are acting up, or your in-laws are pissing you off?

So if the two of you cannot disagree and then compromise like reasonable adults before you're married, then marriage for you will be a hellish ordeal. Bail out and end it at this point. You'll be glad you did.

Answer 4

Hi Lucy. Well one thing no one has thought about when answering the question is that, there has to an element of love involved here, or there would be no talk of marriage, but before you both take that step you need to sit down and talk about how you are going to resolve this problem of the fighting. Not a good way of starting married life knowing you fight all the time. You can think about going to see a pre marital counsellor, this can help you both find solutions to your problems. Apart from that I wish you both good luck and the boxing gloves are in the post, ha ha.............David

Answer 5

Do you mean that you always fought with the man you are gonna marry? If yes,then I'd hold off on marrying him for quite sometime till you are both stable and fully happy,cos marriage won't mend your problems,that's for sure.
Try working on your problems first.

If it's a different man,then why compare the past relationship with the present? That's a recipe for disaster. And if you go into a new relationship while still suffering the past problems that you have in yourself,you'll be heading for a fall.

Answer 6

1000 times worse. If you are happy and completely in love and never fight marriage will destroy it. If you are fighting now just wait LMAO Here are some facts of life you obviously haven't learned yet:

1. There is no Santa
2. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
3. Marriage sucks
4. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
5. Life is not fair

Good luck and Happy Holidays. Email me
if you want honest answers from a man that doesn't
lie anymore.

Answer 7

If you feel the need to ask this on YA, you know there's problems on the horizon. Use your instincts. They are serving you well by making you uncomfortable. Counseling is an idea, but only if you both want a future and realize there is a need. If only one person wants this, trust me- it's not going to work.

As a wise person once said, there are "plenty of fish in the sea," it's not a reflection on you if you have to throw this one back in.

Answer 8

No one is going to come along and wave the magic marriage wand and take away all the problems you have while dating. Those bad habits aren't going to fade just because you say 'I do'.

Answer 9

I NEVER EVER fought with my boyfriends. But, now I'm married to someone I've known for 12 years and we do argue sometimes. But Ive just become really bitter towards men. So, it may be you... .. or it may be men. hah

Answer 10

Well don't marry that boyfriend, marry someone who loves you! Try someone who communicates way BETTER! This will probably end shortly after it starts if you marry the arguing kind of man. If this is not the same person, NO it won't end. That depends on YOU!

Learn to COMPRIMISE!!!!!

Answer 11

Marriage won't change that. Marriage doesn't change any circumstances, other than you can't go your separate ways without getting a judge involved.