i just told my best friend that i have feeling for him even though hhe has a gf? he still thinks im jokin , how can i show him that i dnt!!!!
2007-11-27 02:12:47 · 13 answers · asked by linetta 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm fairly certain that he knows it's not a joke but he's playing it off like it is one to avoid addressing the issue of a romantic relationship with you. He has a girlfriend and wants to keep her; you should respect his choice and don't add more confusion to the equation.
It wasn't a mistake to tell him how you feel, but you need to back off of the romance issue now. The ball is in his court, and it doesn't appear to be something he wants to act on at this time. Again, respect his decision.
2007-11-27 02:17:58 · answer #1 · answered by DJ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Their's two reason he's pretending you are joking the first one is that he really loves his girlfriend and he likes you as a friend and only as a friend thats why he does'nt want to talk about it because he does not want to break up the friendship. The second reason might be if he does'nt like his girlfriend(big if) he can't see you romantically but wants only as a friend so don't push him because you might wind up loosing a good friend and good friends ae hard to come bye.
2007-11-27 03:03:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a girlfriend just let things go,cos if he wasn't happy with her,he wouldn't be with her.
What's done is done now,so just move on and reamin his friend.
He may well know you wasn't joking but didn't want to be in that uncomfortable position that you put him in,so maybe that's why he laughed it off in the way he did.
2007-11-27 02:20:31 · answer #3 · answered by tinyfeet64 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he happy with his gf? if he is maybe you shouldnt say it again. If he isn't then you could tell him again. Do you think he likes you? Id be careful though. How long has he been with his gf? Need more details really before answering properly. :)
2007-11-27 02:19:51 · answer #4 · answered by hobknob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ow lng has im and is girlfr been together? do you really want to take the risk of lossing im? me and my ex became friends he has got a new gf i still ad feelings for im and kept them from im for awhile then i tld im and it all went terribly wrong. i ave always followed my heart bt now i wish dat i had listened to my head, cuz ive lost a good friend.
2007-11-27 02:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by rhonamona 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So - you are trying to break him and his girlfriend up are you - selfish springs to mind.
Leave him alone and find someone that is single - if it was the other way round you would be whining and moaning about it for a year
2007-11-27 02:19:46 · answer #6 · answered by jamand 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he is simply acting ok and he knows and understands u'r feelings for him but is not really to express it so just forget everything and ignore him
2007-11-27 02:24:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you make a mistake? YES!
How do you show him that you weren't joking? YOU DON'T.
HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND...
LEAVE HIM ALONE.
2007-11-27 03:13:59 · answer #8 · answered by Wayner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a girl friend, leave him alone.
2007-11-27 02:23:38 · answer #9 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't try as he already knows.
2007-11-27 09:51:13 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋