im 14 and pregnant?

Question

im 14 and pregnant what should i do im too scared to tell my parents

Answer 1

well u can go to your school if u want an abortion and they can support you and it will be kept confidential. (if your in the uk)

or you can take yourself to the doctors and they can help you

but if you want to keep the baby you will have to tell some one , its a huge ordeal for your body to try to go though at you age.

anyway best of luck xx

Answer 2

Right, you need to take a deep breath and relax. Ok, so you're pregnant. It's not the end of the world - it'll make things alot more harder from now on but you're not the first and definitely not the last. You need a plan: are you going to keep it, have it and have it adopted or abort it? Depending on how far gone you are, if you really feel like you won't be able to give baby the best life you can then you could get an abortion and your parents would never have to know. If you don't want to have an abortion, you could have baby and have him/her adopted. I would recommend you think about this in detail because it's likely that when baby has grown up, he/she will come looking for you. Or there is the last option - keep him/her. It's a scary prospect but you can make a go of it. When you've made your decision, you need to tell your parents. I would sit them down, tell them and I would recommend you leave the house for the next day or so to let it sink in. Then, you need to go back home and tell them your plan. Show them you are mature enough to talk about this like an adult. Good luck

Answer 3

You really need to talk to some one about this don't try to deal with this alone. Do you have a school counsellor that your close to or a help line that you can call. Even a relatives that you know will help you threw this time in your life. Just find someone cause this is not the time to keep this to yourself. I know your scared and went threw the what ifs and probably denied the facts but you are so young. I was fourteen and I was pregnant and had a miscarriage. It is very scary but you need to find someone to help you think of if something happens your parents will find out and that is not the way you want them to find out.Get help and If I was able to be there I would be your support, good luck!

Answer 4

You have to tell someone sweetheart, get it off your chest. Whatever you decide to do you have to live with that for the rest of your life. My boyfriend should have a child of 18 years old now but the mother aborted it. There isn't a day goes by he doesn't think about it. And if you keep it your life is never the same again it over for you and your freedom.If you know how much your parents love you, you know they will understand help and support you. Best of luck, Your going to need it.

Answer 5

Hello sweetie!

What you need to do is for now, just just sit down and take a couple of breathes, you'll be feeling all kinds of emotions at the moment.

Before telling your parents have you thought of talking to a friend, someone you know or trust?

If you don't know anyone you trust, write or jot down your thoughts that you want to explain to your parents (perhaps through a letter) and sit them down and tell them.

You will feel much more relieved and it'll be some weight of your shoulders.

If its easier perhaps taking your mum to the side? Your mum will of course be shocked but she will come around to it and be able to talk to you about the options.

I would also suggest booking an appointment in your local GP and a nurse will be supportive and talk to you about your pregnancy.

Please don't be frightened of your parents, they love you and will support you whatever your decision!

Answer 6

Hi there, if you don't feel you can tell your parents try to think of somebody else older than yourself who you can trust and confide in and talk the situation over with them. Maybe an aunt or cousin, or a female friend or a friends mum or sister? If not find the telephone number or address of your local family planning clinic who have people ready to help and listen in situations like this. They will keep all the information confidential. You can find their number via the internet depending where you live.
Eventually you will have to tell your parents - their response may surprise you, they may be shocked at first but you are their daughter and they will support you. If you speak in confidence to somebody else first maybe this person can help break the news & explain to your parents with you. Whatever the outcome of the situation you choose you will need your parents love and support.
I wish you well.

Answer 7

look your not the first and u wont be the last 2 have a baby at your age tell your parents u need all the support u can get it wont be as bad as u think . take it from someone who nose and now i have 4 but do it as soon as u can or if u cant tell them get someone close 2 u in your family hope u be ok

Answer 8

Its a very scary thing but u need to tell someone, it dont have to be your parents just some one that could take you to appointments and check ups i was so scared when i told my parents, they were really mad at first but then they helped out so much!! now shes 4 months old and they love her

Answer 9

Damn aren't you upstream without a paddle? Girl i can tell you one thing there's no way you're going unpunished for this because you still are so young,but tell your mom first,i don't think your father will be so understanding.Your mom will probably be very disappointed in you,but that doesn't mean she's going to disown you or murder you for it.Try to get her alone and try to get her relaxed and then tell her the story and hopefully she'll understand,but you have to tell your parents,and here's just a little tipper let your mom calm your dad down first while you get away from the house for a couple of hours,because he's probably going to want to shoot the guy that knocked his little girl up,and guess what you can bet you'll be next.So good luck and congrats.

Answer 10

Honey, if you really are pregnant.. I have one question for you.
What the heck are you doing? Apparently, you don't have the best parents in the world anyway. If you did, they'd watch you close enough that there'd be no way you could ever possibly get pregnant. But my thing is.. WHY DID YOU HAVE SEX? If you knew you could get pregnant before you spread your legs? Now, you have to deal with the consequences.. Sex is a huge responsibility, and you're too young to deal with it. You have to tell your parents, you have no choice. Eventually, you're gonna show and they're going to know somethings up. If you feel like you can't talk to your parents right now, go to another trusted adult.. I hope all works out well for you.. Sorry if I seemed a little harsh;; but I was 14 once, and I would've never thought of having sex then.. that's all.

Answer 11

You really do need to tell your parents. They will get angry, mad and upset but when they have calmed down they will be there for you and help you through this. You have made a mistake and you need to let you parents know that you know that! They will probably look for someone to blame, and even themselves but it is soooo important for them to know.

Good luck, don't worry, everything will come right in the end.