I was looking on the internet and found that my husband had been writing to other females, well I found one note in particular that said the girl looked hot. I asked him a bout it and he said he knows it was stupid and dont know why he did it. Now priar to that he had been saving pictures that he would find on the internet and lie about it. Now yesterday I look in his account and he has a myspace pag that I knew nothing about. When I asked him about that he said he had gotten the account a few weeks ago because he was listening to the radio and he could only log into something specific if he had a myspace page. ANOTHER LIE. Well back to the note I asked him how old the girl looked. He told me about 35. He is 31 and I am 27. I just so happen to find out that she too has a myspace page from searching and on her page it says she is 22. Another lie.
Now he says he just wants to work it out and make everything perfect. We have been married for 8 years. What should I do?
2007-11-27 02:00:36 · 5 answers · asked by N. Renee' 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stop snooping and get rid of this liar (and either adulterer or soon to be adulterer...there is a reason he is a liar). You know this is true, you have proved it so being right gets you nothing else going forward. He is never gonna say a ha since you got me and you are right I guess I will just change who I am.
You can't have a trusting relationship with a liar and you can't have a healthy relationship without trust. When you get past all the other noise in this situation, it is that simple.
2007-11-27 02:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by George 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would be very careful. From what I have heard myspace is nothing but trouble for married men, and he should not have one in my opinion. Myspace is mainly for single people. The fact that he lied about it, and did it behind your back is problematic. Lying is used to cover up something more. I would consider counseling, as to I sense some problems coming if he keeps this up and if he continues to lie, it may be time to get out.
2007-11-27 02:07:08 · answer #2 · answered by lwomar 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is starting to travel down a path of no return. You should contact him on one of his web sites and pretend to be someone else.Talk to him and see how far he will go. Then you can bust him and he cant lie about it and you have proof.
Then tell him he has a problem and the two of you can do what it takes to fix it.
2007-11-27 02:16:48 · answer #3 · answered by purplewaterhorse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many people fall victim to the Lures and lusts that sights like those provide,
It gives you a science of being another person and get that feeling of being wanted
however didn't your wedding vowels say something to the effect till death do you part so kill him {only kidding }
Keep your commitment and work it out if he is lying he knows its wrong and you can work it out.
my space and porn sites have ruined many marriages
don't be a statistic
rise above
2007-11-27 02:14:15 · answer #4 · answered by working together 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get marriage counseling!
2007-11-27 02:12:41 · answer #5 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋