So I'm 31 weeks pregnant, my husband and I have now been happily married for 3 months and life is going really well. But now all of a sudden it seems like my ex's are trying to take over! I have one ex that keeps writing me on myspace and telling me to stop talking about him and his family which is totally ridiculous! I have so much better things to do besides sit around and talk about a guy that I dated over 2 years ago! Then I have another ex that obviously stays drunk and calls and text me all night long wondering what went wrong in our relationship and why I won't take him back! We broke up over 3 years ago! Move on!!! What should I do? Should I just ignore these losers or should I say something to them? They both know i'm married and expecting but obviously neither of them seem to care! I'm 23 year old wife and soon to be mother and feeling waaay too mature for this crap!
2007-11-27 01:47:40 · 7 answers · asked by Just Call Me Jenn 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband works long crazy hours and says he's too worn out all the time to really care plus he trust me. So he really doesn't have much to say except they need to get lives which I agree!
2007-11-27 02:00:18 · update #1
Get a new cell number and block oh boy from myspace, can't you change your name on myspace?
How does your husband feel about all this?
2007-11-27 01:56:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of cell phones give you the ability to block certain numbers. I would be looking to see if you have this feature, and use it.
As far as the myspace guy, I would only reply once and that would be to say what you just did. That you are too busy to worry about him and his family, anything negative being said isn't by you. Then I would ignore him.
2007-11-27 09:53:18 · answer #2 · answered by ╚╔╩╦ 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Don't say anything to them. Ignore them, like they don't live. Get a different cell phone number that will stop all that.
2007-11-27 10:26:42 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would ignore them all and eventually it will stop, don't fed into them it'll only be worse. Change your number if ya want, or delete him from your myspace page, its not that hard!!!
2007-11-27 09:57:04 · answer #4 · answered by NY Yanks Girrl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
whats the problem? get rid of the myspace page (since you are waaay too mature anyway) and change the cell number. this can be done within a day, if you really! wanted it to be taking care of. i highly doubt that though.
2007-11-27 10:05:19 · answer #5 · answered by not this way 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
its good that u know where to draw a line. i would suggest that u email them gently, firmly but to the point so that they know exactly what u are thinking. tell them that u are now happily married and pregnant and encourage them to look for new love again. if they persist their ways, then u need to draw a sharp line. there's no grey area.
2007-11-27 09:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
The one on the computer seems like no big deal....just ignore him. The one who is busy on the phone, I would have my husband talk to him.....that should do it.
2007-11-27 09:56:05 · answer #7 · answered by Rein 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋