....the advances of those, who you thought were your friends?
or do you live in the mistaken belief that just because Your desire for someone is not dominated by physical appearance, that this Should be his approach, and you should be cut some slack as you get older, when in fact he is genetically programmed to find a woman desireable [for fertility &reproduction reasons] only if she is [or remains] within certain physical parameters.
2007-11-26 23:04:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
When you get married, it is because you love the person. There is no garuntee that a person will remain thin, fat, funny, or sane. That is the chances you take in life. Outward appearence should not change how you feel about the other person. Medical problems could be a contributer, or maybe someone gains weight because they are being abused. There are so many reason why a person gains weight, but there is no reason to not honor your wedding vows, because you want to have sex outside of the marriage.
2007-11-26 23:17:43 · answer #1 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Men should not get married and be in long term relationships if they have no self control towards other attractive women.
Just because you get with a size 0 doesn't mean she will stay this way. Guys don't realise how hard it is and don't really understand how a lot of women have eating disorders to try and keep slim and therefore keep their man.
And of course slim women never get cheated on do they!!??
You have to accept each other or you may as well be single.
When you find the one for you, you don't care.
2007-11-27 07:16:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
That goes both ways, you know. I know married couples where the guy is getting fatter by the day and the woman is still looking good. One guy is even scared to let his wife have a job because of it.
No mistaken belief, but that isn't love, is it?
2007-11-27 07:09:33 · answer #3 · answered by Alright 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
erm... i am size 0 for now and eat like a big but i cant gain nothing so it is highly unlikely this will ever happen keeping in mind i am single too
2007-11-27 07:08:42 · answer #4 · answered by Est passé de velours ♥Rose♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of self control and free will? That is a big part of what separates man from most animals.
2007-11-27 07:49:51 · answer #5 · answered by 99% Tater says: TAX THE RICH! 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
NOO...beacause I will never be ugly and my man is older than me and he is happy like a fat cat.
2007-11-27 09:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
what a complete load of b*ll*cks. please don't think all men are as shallow and conceited as you so obviously are. some men are in love with the person and not the physical appearance.
2007-11-27 07:36:59 · answer #7 · answered by JanJan 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes it goes both ways.
2007-11-27 07:10:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
lol no..... he's got ginger hair!
2007-11-27 07:21:15 · answer #9 · answered by womble 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋