Please help if your in the same situation as me. Or if you have any advice on how to deal. I really wanted a boy. I just found out I'm having a girl? How do I sike myself up?
2007-11-26 21:53:56 · 11 answers · asked by Proud_Mommy 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
u should be happy of what u have...a girl or a boy its ok...babies are the most precious gift that GOD gave us...it doesnt matter what the gender is..as long as the baby is healthy u should be happy...remember u r very bless....coz u got a life in ur tummy..some couple wish to have one but they are not lucky as u....so be happy...make ur pregnancy a good memory...cherish it..make him feel that u love him very much..talked to him..he surely listens u..
2007-11-26 22:03:32 · answer #1 · answered by meljcovich 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right now you are just hormonal and it seems like a bigger disappointment than what it really. Just think about all the things you can do with your daughter -- look forward to dressing her up, playing dolls with her, fixing her hair. Go out the mall and start looking through some newborn outfits for girls!
Also, just remember how many people out there want children and never get a chance to have them, or parents that struggle because their children are born sick. Just be thankful that you're having a beautiful heathy baby!
2007-11-26 22:05:07 · answer #2 · answered by Marissa: Worker of Iniquity 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wanted a boy as well, and just found out a week ago that it was a girl. I was bummed for a whole...20 minutes. Now I'm soooo excited. I didn't do anything to make myself excited though. I just...was. Mostly because I knew she was going to be healthy and beautiful and perfect. After all this is your child. Boy or girl, you should be excited.
2007-11-26 21:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by Ens5909 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
girl, no matter what...ur gonna love this baby. i never thought id want a boy. i had a girl with my first and am 7 mnths pregnant with a little baby boy. i didnt know anything about boys! but now im so excited i cant wait. it just takes time. ur going to go by all the little baby stuff and get all googly eyed. girls are sooo much fun. my little girl is my world.
2007-11-26 21:59:16 · answer #4 · answered by Jada and Ty's mommy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should not have checked what it is???? now, dont feel bad, whatever it is there it is yours. girls are no way less than boys these days. girls will have more attachment and affection towards parents than boys. now, when u r pregnant this is right time to develop relation with yr baby. u must think positive, whatever u think now will reflect on your child. it is now in yr hand for not giving any feeling of rejection to yr baby in stomach. best of luck. if u start thinknig positive, i hope u will overcome the frustration and accept yr child after delivery.
2007-11-26 22:03:59 · answer #5 · answered by a a 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is your first pregnancy, there is no need to be afraid as you still have lots of chances to be pregnant and have a boy. Even if you do get a girl, that would mean it is heaven's will that you have a baby girl, so do not be so unhappy.
2007-11-26 21:59:55 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Fairy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your first baby doesn't matter. The main thing is that the baby and mom stay healthy. Having a girl first means you will have a large family.
2007-11-26 22:16:39 · answer #7 · answered by SilentDoGood 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can always try again. took me 3 time to get my boy all i have to say is love your daughter with all your heart don't let her know u wanted a boy it might hurt her feeling in time knowing you wanted a boy and not her so love her with all your heart and God bless you
2007-11-26 22:02:05 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should concentrate your effort in helping that baby become healthy instead of thinking about the sex of that baby,it is something to thank for, besides as long as that baby gets out of your womb healthy that should matter,
2007-11-26 21:59:00 · answer #9 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's your baby. You should love her even though you'd like her to have a brother.
2007-11-26 21:57:12 · answer #10 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋