I am 16 and wanting a baby but cant. I done been to the doc. and dont know why. I am married...we dated about 5 years. I have a full-time job and he dose also. I quit school and got my GED. We been trying over a year.I have been all medicen still nothing work. Will some help me plz!?
2007-11-26 19:12:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Although you are young... that does not mean you aren't ready!! None of these people are your paents.I understand you 100% when you are ready you are ready just keep trying have faith and stay persistent. I'm trying to so if something works for you let me know.
2007-11-27 06:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by srena_05 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I agree with Ka99. It's not meant to be yet. When it's meant to be it'll happen. Did you know that you are likely to stunt your growth and to risk the babies health by having the baby at 16. You are still trying to grow (not so much in height but in other ways) and you need those nutrients that the baby would take away from you. It might cause damage to your bone structure now and in the future. Good Luck. And really don't you want to go to college? Or do something before having a baby. Maybe get a better job or something of that nature. I understand marrying young. I'm about to do it myself but unless I had a blessed accident I wouldn't want to be pregnant right now. Anyway enjoy just being together for now... because when baby comes you'll never be "us" anymore. You'll be "The _______ family "
2007-11-27 06:14:54 · answer #2 · answered by STRESSED spells DESSERTS 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are very young so don't worry. The time will come when God wants. Sometimes the reproductive organs of a woman are not yet ready at that age. I know a girl who got married at 17 and had her first baby (without any medication) after SEVEN years of marriage.
Of course you need to go to a gynecologist and get some tests. Maybe your husband needs some treatment. Don't panic for any reason, and remember that a baby can be a blessing from God, or can be a curse! :) So whatever God gives you is good. Patience.
Peace-salaam.
2007-11-27 03:31:14 · answer #3 · answered by Abu Ahmad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 16 and married? Wow. You'll get pregnant when God wants you to get pregnant. Not before. To everyone above me who says that she's too young to have a baby. In a lot of cultures and countries outside the usa it's legal and encouraged for daughters to have their children young. If God didn't want women to get pregnant at 12 or as a teenager then he wouldn't let women go through puberty at 9 or 10 years old and let them get their period from 10-13. There is nothing wrong with having a baby young as long as your married. My mother in law got married @ 15 and had her son @ 16 and all 7 of her kids are doing well. There is nothing wrong with any of her children. They are all grown adults and are perfectly healthy. In many religions and cultures a girl is a woman and adult as soon as she gets her first period.
2007-11-27 10:59:54 · answer #4 · answered by wolfkarew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not meant to be yet. When the time is right it will happen. Dont get stressed about it. You are so young that it would be better when you are a bit older - you are less likely to get post natal depression, you would be more financial hopefully, more mature to handle such a big responsibility. So maybe God has it all under control. And when you do get pregnant you will find that baby is the best baby in the world! And you will be glad you have him/her!
All the best
2007-11-27 03:18:08 · answer #5 · answered by Nic 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I seriously doubt that a 16-year-old newlywed (?) has exhausted all medical options. I don't know what "medicen" you could be talking about, but you probably didn't get it from a fertility doctor. They don't even want to SEE you until you've been trying for two years at least.
2007-11-27 12:09:01 · answer #6 · answered by helene 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you are quick!
I wonder how your parents feel about you getting married at such a young age...
You remind me of Marie Antionette.
Perhaps you aren't ovulating and so on. Maybe it's just your call from God saying that you are still too young, just enjoy the last 3 years of your teenhood.
2007-11-27 09:46:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A baby is lovely and sweet and sleeps pretty much all day - but they turn into toddlers who scribble on your walls, wee on the carpet whilst your potty training them, scream the place down everytime your in a shop, they turn into children who ask awkward questions, don't let you have ANY secrets, throw wobblies, answer back...
Surely you could wait a few more years for that!! I had my daughter at 20 and I found it really hard, I wasn't old enough. Just give yourself a few years.
2007-11-27 04:54:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
must not be from the usa. you are very young to young to be married to young to be having sex and too young for a full time job. here in the usa its illegal for you to quit school you have to be 17.
apparently your body isnt mature or ready for pregnancy. the doctor isnt concerned so you shouldnt be either try us again when your 30 and have this kind of problem
2007-11-27 08:08:12 · answer #9 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether you are married or not, I think that 16 is too young to have a baby in the first place. Maybe you are infertile. Go to college, get a real job. You are going to miss out on soooo much if you have a baby now. Go to the movies, hang out with your friends... go get drunk! You will wish you had lived your youth instead of raising a baby!
2007-11-27 03:19:05 · answer #10 · answered by AmberLynn 4 · 5⤊ 2⤋