meaning: if u don't do this with me...I'll take that gift back....is that not stupid????
2007-11-26 18:56:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yes and thats exactly the reason that I don't like to borrow money from people...I don't want to feel like I owe anybody anything
2007-11-26 19:07:50 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Helena Lomax 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is sort of a funny situation. I would say the person who got you the gift did it on purpose and he/she did it because f certain expectations. Now when the person finds out that his expectations are to ruins, the person gets irritated and look for somthing which should pull off his frustation. At this point of time one should either give some sort of emotional support or some sort of physical support. Providing the person recieves none, the only way to get over the frustating moment is OF UNDOING. i.e. the person takes his gift back.
OR throws the gift on your face in order to show that neither matters to him, or that he is angry and frustated.
I can provide you with the solution to such frustating event as well. You can IM me for reference and adaptive behaviour which may be used at such occassions.
2007-11-27 03:07:21 · answer #2 · answered by aashish.shrivastav 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you accept a gift from someone that would do that to you? I have never done that, nor would I ever. Give the gift back, and tell him to go away.
2007-11-27 03:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by Jan G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's stupid is if you know this person has this type of attitude you should leave well alone. It's called an "Indian Giver". Best not to accept a gift from a person with this type of attitude. Only leads to negative feelings:o)
2007-11-27 03:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by LeisaStar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is stupid. I remember people doing that to me when I was younger. That's a childish thing!! If someone through a gift in my face, Id throw(literally) that gift in theirs!!
2007-11-27 02:59:34 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥Mommy to 2 Divas♥♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's usually said out of anger or frustration, they don't want the gift back, they just want that same appreciation
2007-11-27 03:00:15 · answer #6 · answered by tkd28282003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya, I hate that. I accepted about $25,000 from my mom. $22,000 to pay off my loans and $3,000 for a down payment for a truck. I hope I don't regret accepting these gifts. She may use it against me in the future to make me feel guilty.
2007-11-27 03:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by Brianna's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah!
It's a gift! You didn't ask for it, in the first place.
2007-11-27 03:03:18 · answer #8 · answered by Tazmiamor 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
UGH!!!
YES indeedy!!
I had an X like that. He never did ONE thing for me our whole 5 years of marriage. And i mean NADA.....
I bought EVERYTHING that went into that marriage , including things for "OUR" garage. cough.
And paid HIS employees....arghhhhh! He later told his divorce attorney that i "stole" from him!! Do WHATTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT!!!???????????????????????
What was there to steal???? We went on vacation and i funded the whole THING , ...when we got home ....My Momma met us....and we were doing the wash, she found 3,000 in his jeans pockets and 2200 in another jeans pockets!!! she was so furious@!! she told me to KEEP IT!!
I should have!!
arghhhhhhh
2007-11-27 03:02:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like a very childish and immature person that would act like that. you would be best off giving back everything and avoiding anyone that inconsiderate.
2007-11-27 03:01:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋